In conversation, in school...

Nov 13, 2005 13:55

If you happen to be the third party that causes someone to leave his existing relationship to be with you, what's stopping someone else from coming along and doing the same thing to your relationship?

Wouldn't you keep wondering at the back of your mind? Or would you think that the love shared in your relationship is stronger than the one that was shared in the previous relationship? What makes this love more special?

Do you believe in bad karma? As they say, what goes around comes around. There are other people you can be with; it's your choice. Isn't it? Or is there such a thing as accidental falling?

That being said, just because you've been good and you've played by the rules doesn't mean that your relationship is invulnerable to such temptations.

Maybe because there are a lot of not-so-nice people in this world. Playing a game with only one rule - may the best person win. Is that wrong?

It seems unfair. It even seems terribly unjust. But sometimes, that's the way life is. What can you do about it?

Never pass judgment on someone else's actions. Unless you're absolutely certain you'll never do the same thing. And no one can be 100% certain.

But if bad actions are condoned, or no one bothers to say anything, does that make the action alright? Wouldn't silence/ non-comment perpetuate the situation; make it more common and acceptable everywhere? Wouldn't you then become greater exposed to the risks of it happening to you?

Pretending nothing's wrong doesn't make the fact go away. Whatever happened to good conscience? Or have you stopped listening?

Makes me feel scummy just thinking about it. Yuck.
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