All the things that we accept become the things we regret
I'm not exactly sure how to start this, but I know where I want to go with it... I've been thinking about a lot of stuff lately and just as any other normal girl, guys tend to end up on the top three of the list. I've come to realize that we as girls base a lot of our self worth on guys and how they treat us. It is ridiculous. If a guy smiles at us or asks us out, we feel on top of the world, but then when they do something stupid (which seems to happen a lot) we question what kind of person we are. Instead of realizing that the guy is the idiot, we automatically think there is something wrong with us. We're not pretty enough, thin enough, smart enough.. when in reality we're amazing, wonderful people regardless of how a guy treats us. We shouldn't need a guy to makes us realize that.
And I don't know about all the other girls out there, but I've noticed a serious lack of decent guys around lately. Maybe it's the age we're at or just the area I'm in, but almost every guy I cross paths with turns out to be not such a good person. Maybe I'm just too trusting or my expectations are too high. I don't know. And I was starting to think it was just me finding these types, but a lot of my friends lately have been finding the same thing, guys who are dishonest, disrespectful and selfish. Apparently we're asking too much... and that is really sad.
To the few good ones left out there (yes, I still have a little bit of hope, I'm not completely jaded yet)... this was not directed at you and I aplogize that you have to be associated with the jerks. They're ruining it for you.
And I don't know about all the other girls out there, but I've noticed a serious lack of decent guys around lately. Maybe it's the age we're at or just the area I'm in, but almost every guy I cross paths with turns out to be not such a good person. Maybe I'm just too trusting or my expectations are too high. I don't know. And I was starting to think it was just me finding these types, but a lot of my friends lately have been finding the same thing, guys who are dishonest, disrespectful and selfish. Apparently we're asking too much... and that is really sad.
To the few good ones left out there (yes, I still have a little bit of hope, I'm not completely jaded yet)... this was not directed at you and I aplogize that you have to be associated with the jerks. They're ruining it for you.