Speaking up
So I just discovered that I've been deleted from someone's Friendster account, and LJ account, and I've been demoted to mere co-worker in Multiply a few months back. I can only shake my head. I guess it's only a matter of time before this happened. Am surprised it didn't happen sooner. Am also surprised that for someone as smart as her, she could not grasp the cause and effect concept. I guess everyone thinks that I am the one who screwed up. Because of course nobody has ever really heard my side. Just as well. Silence is my best friend. Complications, confrontations tend to add wrinkles to one's forehead. I've enough other bigger problems to last me a lifetime.
The falling out saddened me, I'd have to admit. And up until her last entry, and the deletion, I've been hoping that somehow unsaid things and accusations could be said so as to clear the air a bit. I didn't expect a tearful reconciliation, such as what usually happens after a highschool open forum. A civil relationship would have been enough. Three years ago I had a misunderstanding with a college girl friend, too. It wasn't after 2 years that we made up. Of course, we didn't go back to the way we were.
So there. I guess there are some things that are better left alone. I don't know why it came to this and I guess I'll never know. There is one side of the story, but there is also another part unknown.
So how's me? Well, not 100% fine, but OK nonetheless.
The falling out saddened me, I'd have to admit. And up until her last entry, and the deletion, I've been hoping that somehow unsaid things and accusations could be said so as to clear the air a bit. I didn't expect a tearful reconciliation, such as what usually happens after a highschool open forum. A civil relationship would have been enough. Three years ago I had a misunderstanding with a college girl friend, too. It wasn't after 2 years that we made up. Of course, we didn't go back to the way we were.
So there. I guess there are some things that are better left alone. I don't know why it came to this and I guess I'll never know. There is one side of the story, but there is also another part unknown.
So how's me? Well, not 100% fine, but OK nonetheless.