Now that I'm settled.
Ok. Big changes. Good changes.
I broke up with Jeremy last Thursday. I found out he was seeing someone behind my back, because in his words, I "checked out a long time ago" and she is "helping him figure out his life." Whatever.
I admit that I did some bad things in our relationship. But nothing compares to someone who cheated on me repeatedly, bled me dry financially and emotionally, drank waaaaay too much, smoked weed daily, handled his own money horribly and got arrested for punching a guy while he was drunk the weekend before I went home to my first Christmas without my stepfather.
Yeah, needless to say, I deserve better. I'm slightly bummed it took me 4 years to realize that, but the only important thing is that I realized it. And that's all that matters.
So while jackass was in NYC from Friday until yesterday, I packed up all my stuff and moved to a temporary sublet near Chevy Chase, MD. I'm staying with a lady who is around my mom's age and for what I was paying in rent, I got a bedroom, sun room, study and private bathroom, plus free run of the house, which is huge. She's a super nice lady, we have no problem chatting and I feel super comfortable and safe. Unfortunately, I had to leave the cats with him, but he agreed to take care of them until I can move them to my mom's in February. But I have a key to be able to check on them while he is not there, which is great.
So, yeah. Big changes. Good changes. And I feel awesome about what lies ahead.
I broke up with Jeremy last Thursday. I found out he was seeing someone behind my back, because in his words, I "checked out a long time ago" and she is "helping him figure out his life." Whatever.
I admit that I did some bad things in our relationship. But nothing compares to someone who cheated on me repeatedly, bled me dry financially and emotionally, drank waaaaay too much, smoked weed daily, handled his own money horribly and got arrested for punching a guy while he was drunk the weekend before I went home to my first Christmas without my stepfather.
Yeah, needless to say, I deserve better. I'm slightly bummed it took me 4 years to realize that, but the only important thing is that I realized it. And that's all that matters.
So while jackass was in NYC from Friday until yesterday, I packed up all my stuff and moved to a temporary sublet near Chevy Chase, MD. I'm staying with a lady who is around my mom's age and for what I was paying in rent, I got a bedroom, sun room, study and private bathroom, plus free run of the house, which is huge. She's a super nice lady, we have no problem chatting and I feel super comfortable and safe. Unfortunately, I had to leave the cats with him, but he agreed to take care of them until I can move them to my mom's in February. But I have a key to be able to check on them while he is not there, which is great.
So, yeah. Big changes. Good changes. And I feel awesome about what lies ahead.