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Wow! If I were her I'd be worried. Her oldest son has decided he doesn't want to be there because the whole atmosphere there is not nice. She blames Dad, accuses him of things, lies, calls him names, fights fairly regular with the youngest one and he is tired of it .... "it's the same things all the time, it gets old, it's gotten old" is his quote.
The fact that she has the youngest one 'not wanting to come to Dad's' right now is simply a matter of bribary and lies and THAT will wear out. The oldest has made a decision based solely on true feelings. The youngest on 'if you stay here you will get ____ fill in about 4 promises that we KNOW about so far. This is the same boy that a week ago was in tears and so angry with his mother ... saying that he is angry about "everything she does, the way she is all the time, the way she grabs me off the couch and hurts my shoulder and yells at me" the same boy that ran back 3 times when Mom was picking him up to say love you and hugs and kisses then yelled out the car window "LOVE YOU" as they were driving away ... and apparently 2 hours later he didnt want to come to Dad's, he was upset with Dad?????!!! Random ... or randomly assisted anyway. As soon as he is here - away from her - which apparently he will come on Sunday for "a visit" - I am pretty sure he will be calling Mom to say he wants to stay .... shes done this to him before.
Grrrrrrrrr, and she calls herself a good mom and a coach able to HELP others with parenting and relationship issues ... ROFLMAO ... I still can't believe this and feel so bad for the ones that happen upon her 'Coaching' website and seek help from her ... oh if they only knew ... and if they only knew the money paid to her will go to assisting in her new married over the internet, denied a visa to canada already, husband in living well, cellphone in hand and no job while still in africa and getting to Canada sooner.
Great :)
Oh and I read this and found it VERY interesting and fitting ... almost as though it was written in a book called "All About S The Cow" ...
Like naïve alienators, active alienators allow the children to have different feelings and beliefs from their own. During the flare-ups of anger, however, the delineation between the child and parent's beliefs can become very blurry until the parent calms down and regains control. For the most part, older children have their own opinions about both parents based upon personal experience rather than what they are told by others. To keep peace, the older child usually learns to keep their opinions to themselves. Younger and more trusting children become more confused and vulnerable to their parents' manipulations
The fact that she has the youngest one 'not wanting to come to Dad's' right now is simply a matter of bribary and lies and THAT will wear out. The oldest has made a decision based solely on true feelings. The youngest on 'if you stay here you will get ____ fill in about 4 promises that we KNOW about so far. This is the same boy that a week ago was in tears and so angry with his mother ... saying that he is angry about "everything she does, the way she is all the time, the way she grabs me off the couch and hurts my shoulder and yells at me" the same boy that ran back 3 times when Mom was picking him up to say love you and hugs and kisses then yelled out the car window "LOVE YOU" as they were driving away ... and apparently 2 hours later he didnt want to come to Dad's, he was upset with Dad?????!!! Random ... or randomly assisted anyway. As soon as he is here - away from her - which apparently he will come on Sunday for "a visit" - I am pretty sure he will be calling Mom to say he wants to stay .... shes done this to him before.
Grrrrrrrrr, and she calls herself a good mom and a coach able to HELP others with parenting and relationship issues ... ROFLMAO ... I still can't believe this and feel so bad for the ones that happen upon her 'Coaching' website and seek help from her ... oh if they only knew ... and if they only knew the money paid to her will go to assisting in her new married over the internet, denied a visa to canada already, husband in living well, cellphone in hand and no job while still in africa and getting to Canada sooner.
Great :)
Oh and I read this and found it VERY interesting and fitting ... almost as though it was written in a book called "All About S The Cow" ...
Like naïve alienators, active alienators allow the children to have different feelings and beliefs from their own. During the flare-ups of anger, however, the delineation between the child and parent's beliefs can become very blurry until the parent calms down and regains control. For the most part, older children have their own opinions about both parents based upon personal experience rather than what they are told by others. To keep peace, the older child usually learns to keep their opinions to themselves. Younger and more trusting children become more confused and vulnerable to their parents' manipulations