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What do you do when you realize that an entire relationship/friendship was a lie?
But really, are you supposed to confront the person, say something to the effect of "Hey, things just don't add up, what's going on?" I understand that sometimes fibs and white lies are fine, but telling bold-faced lies about your entire life to your friends of years just doesn't make any sense.
My psychology history makes me want to find some reason, blow it off as Histrionic or Borderline, or something. I just can't get why you would lie to your best friends about things that we wouldn't care about anyway if you were honest.
There's the worry that if we confront her she'll shut us out of her life, but if we go behind her back and try to seek some sort of help, the result would be the same.
GAH.
But really, are you supposed to confront the person, say something to the effect of "Hey, things just don't add up, what's going on?" I understand that sometimes fibs and white lies are fine, but telling bold-faced lies about your entire life to your friends of years just doesn't make any sense.
My psychology history makes me want to find some reason, blow it off as Histrionic or Borderline, or something. I just can't get why you would lie to your best friends about things that we wouldn't care about anyway if you were honest.
There's the worry that if we confront her she'll shut us out of her life, but if we go behind her back and try to seek some sort of help, the result would be the same.
GAH.