random, probably unneccesary post.
Blah. i'm in a blah mood. But the tigers on tv are uber cute. I want one.
My sister is ruining our family and its pissing me off. A lot. All because she became infatuated with a 23 year old boy. Yes he's a boy, no where near a man. Oh and she's 16 if you havent heard me complain about the drama yet. Soo story goes, she fell for him, he bascially is taking control of her, and my parents forbid her to see him. Of course. It's pervy. Well she sneaks around to see him, and finds ways to get past my parents. They take away her phone, driving permission, and ground her lots. Still, he finds a way to often pick her up from school sometimes and they park aways from my house to fool around. I know this because I've had multiple people tell me that they've seen them together. My sister lies, and lies, and lies constantly, i wouldn't believe her if she said she had poptars for breakfast.
So he buys her a phone, since my mom took hers away. My mom sees it, has to have my dad help pin her down to take it away, she runs to the neighbors house. On the phone are some nasty text messages, that i won't repeat on here, but that could possibly be a sign that they've had sex. My sister tells my neighbor that my parents hit her, she takes Laura to her friend's house. My sister for a while played the "i dont feel safe at home" card to leave. Truth: my parents would never, intentionally lay a finger on her. They had to pin her down to take the phone because laura knew what crap was on it.
So Matt, the 23 year old, calls the police and tells them that my sister's been abused. He even goes to her school to try and see her, but they dont let him see her. So, my mom has to be questioned by the police, and even social services because of their little stunt. I've honestly never heard my mom cry so hard, after she talked to the police. They had to question her parenting skills, which broke her down. Of course, they didn't find anything wrong at home, and didn't see an issue, just that laura needed counseling. But my poor mother, who can't sleep and bursts out in tears all the time, is having a tremendously hard time at home. Laura's been basically running the house hold, because my parents are scared that she'll call the cops on them for some reason.
We're trying to put a restraining order on him, thats the only thing we can do according ot our attorney. And we're having a hard time because we dont know his birthday or address. He's from Iowa, and may not be registered under Minnesota yet.
I hate seeing my mom like this. My sister is being absolutely, ridiculously selfish and out of control. I cannot wait to get home and smack some motherfucking sense into her. I dont care what it takes, that girl needs to learn that she is THE CHILD and under the control of my parents, and has to follow their rules whether they like it or not. She said she "didn't feel safe" only because she is mad at them, she knows they're trying to put matt in jail. My poor 12 year old brother, doesnt really understand it too well, i feel bad.
I don't want this. I know our family can do better, we have. It's only been going downhill since Matt got involved. I wish to God that he get put in jail. He is sick. UGHHHHHHHHHHHHH makes me cranky.
AND just to piss me off more, my pathetic ex sent me a message on facebook today saying "please lets just talk, there are things i want you to hear from me, i'm so sorry about everything just give me some time to talk to you." Does he deserve it? it's like, he broke up with his gf to try and talk to me, realized i wasnt giving in, got back together with her, and wants to talk to me now?? wtf? The question is, do i talk to him? If i dont, will he keep bothering me? If i do, will he keep bothering me? I dont like being bothered. Whatever. I don't care. If i go home, i'm going to be caught up with my family drama. If i stay here, I'm going to get bored. I'm bored. I need a change. Dammit, still 8 months till i go to France. fuck