Since we're posting the truth here...
Livejournal has a tendency to do this to people, and yes I was being a bit rude in my last post, but the things that the aforementioned person said on the phone to my friend Jordan about me and him and my wonderful boyfriend Vaughn was quite absurd. In a calmer mood although still ruffled I will show you what her sister wrote and point out the flaws in this journal entry.
Jul. 10th, 2005 @ 12:55 am I CANT TAKE THIS ANYMORE ENOUGH IS ENOUGH
Current Mood: angry
WOW what a bunch of DRAMA I am so tired of it all. I HAVE KEPT MY MOUTH SHUT ALL THIS TIME AND NOW I AM GOING TO LET IT ALL OUT. I am so ANGRY ABOUT WHAT SAM SAID IN HER POST TO MY SISTER SHE HAD NO RIGHT WHAT SO EVER TO SAY WHAT SHE DID KARISSA NEVER SAID ANYTHING MEAN TO HER SAM IS THE ONE WHO BUTTED IN KARISSA AND JORDANS BUSINESS AND NOW SHE IS SAYING ITS KARISSAS FAULT BULL CRAP AND NOW VAUGHN IS COMING BACK AT KARISSA AND MY DAD ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS VAUGHN BETTER WATCH OUT I THINK HIS GIRLFRIEND MIGHT HAVE A THING FOR JORDAN AND THATS WHY SHE KEEPS POSTING IN HIS JOURNAL AND IMING HIM AND SAYING YOUR SO FUNNY HAHA. KARISSA DOES NOT OWE VAUGHN NOR SAM AN APPOLGY THEY WERE THE ONES ACTTING IMMATURE AND EGGING ALL OF THIS ON BY THERE POSTS KARISSA NEVER SAID ONE MEAN THING TO SAM OR VAUGHN IN ANY OF HER POSTS OR IN A IM I JUST WANT TO GET ALL THIS OUT IN THE OPEN. YOU KNOW WHAT IF EITHER OF THEM CARED ABOUT JORDAN LIKE THEY SAY THEY DO THEY WOULD HAVE SEEN WHAT THIS WAS DOING TO THEM AND THEY WOULD HAVE BACKED OFF AND STAYED OUT OF IT AND THEY BOTH KNOW HOW MUCH JORDAN CARES ABOUT KARISSA BUT THEY BOTH SAT THERE AND TALKED CRAP ABOUT HER AND YOU KNOW THE OLD SAYING WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND THEY BOTH SHOULD KEEP THAT ONE IN MIND CAUSE IT JUST MAY HAPPEN TO THEM YOU NEVER KNOW YOU MIGHT THINK YOU HAVE THE STRONGEST RELATIONSHIP BUT ALL IT COULD TAKE IS ONE LITTLE THING/PERSON TO MESS ALL OF THAT UP AND I DONT KNOW HOW SAM CAN SAY SHE HAS BEEN NOTHING BUT SUPPORTIVE AND NICE MAYBE TO JORDAN BUT NEVER ONCE TO KARISSA. I AM DONE
Bree, you haven't kept your mouth shut this whole time, you've been getting involved more than Vaughn and I have. Vaughn and I only gave our opinions where it was asked for, usually by Jordan due to completely being confused or hurt by Karissa's actions. Them breaking up wasn't what anyone wanted, but the reason was definitely not because he likes me more than Karissa. I will say it again, Jordan and Vaughn are best friends. I am always with Vaughn practically, therefore if I hang with Vaughn and Jordan wants to hang, Vaughn won't ditch me in order to hang with Jordan, we'll all hang together, and as friends I think we're allowed to do that. I understand Karissa wanting to be the only girl in his life, but getting on Jordan't aim and deleting and blocking me wasn't mature and which led to me questioning our friendship. Karissa may never have said anything mean in person to me, but I could hear her through the phone sitting there and blaming me, when I didn't even KNOW I was involved. When I heard this I got upset, not only because I don't want to be blamed for ruining a relationship, but because I haven't done anything but try and help Karissa understand. I did call her the other day, and told her they needed to talk in person. I was still upset with her about blocking and deleting me, because there was no need to be threatened by me at all, because I am head over heels in love with Vaughn, as many of my livejournal and personal friends are aware. He even has a promise ring to prove that, which brings me to my next point. I don't know who you or anyone else think they are to tell my boyfriend that he should and I quote watch out. That is completely ridiculous. I am 17 years old and cheating, or hurting Vaughn in any way would absolutely kill me inside. Also, Karissa doesn't owe us an apology? For one, we did try to stay out of it, until Karissa i*med Vaughn asking where her boyfriend was. Forgive me if I'm wrong, but that's dragging my boyfriend into it, which in turn drags me into it because Vaughn and I have no secrets from each other. True we do know Jordan does care or cared, I don't honestly know at this moment, about Karissa, and that is why he went to us for advice about how to fix things. Before you get upset at me you might want to check your facts on many of your allegations. To Rick, I am sorry for my foul language in my previous post, and the things I said about Karissa, but from my perspective, none of your family knows me well enough to say that I am the reason that Jordan and her broke up. Indeed both Vaughn and myself were asked for advice and indeed we gave it as best as we could. No human being is perfect, and relationships often call for advice in times of trouble. I had no problem with Karissa, and I tried to be the bigger person, until I heard the phone conversation yesterday, in which I found out the fighting was about me. I understand jealousy and worrying about cheating, but Jordan is not that type of person and I have known him only four months. To be accused of such ridiculous things honestly makes me upset, because before talking to me, she assumed I was the threat. If Karissa had a problem with me she should have talked to me, no one else, but me. Jordan is my friend, and I will not stop being his friend for some unknown reason, or some stupid allegations. He has done nothing to insult or hurt me in any way, and he did the right thing in not only telling Karissa that I mean nothing to him, which is true, as we are friends, and nothing more, and he is so incredibly happy for me and Vaughn, but also telling her the truth and letting her know it was not his intention to hurt her, which anyone can see was not at all the intention. As for what goes around comes around, the only thing that I can have karma kick me for is that livejournal post, which it indeed is by being harassed yet again on the internet. I did not get involved in your relationship (Karissa and Jordan) to destroy it, I only got involved to try and help when my help was wanted. To wish bad things on my and Vaughn's relationship is truly horrible because we never once wished bad things on yours (Jordan I know you don't this is in reference to what Bree said.) I just hope that you guys will take this post to heart, and take my apologies for the previous one. If not I have been the bigger person in saying my side calmly and letting you know I do not appreciate this harassment. Please let it end with this post and if you would be so kind stop blaming me for what happened. I would be very grateful also if you stopped talking about me, because in all honesty not even Karissa knows me well enough to judge me. She has not taken the time to get to know me, because we did indeed rarely talk unless it was her asking me questions about Jordan.
Thank you and have a nice day.
Jul. 10th, 2005 @ 12:55 am I CANT TAKE THIS ANYMORE ENOUGH IS ENOUGH
Current Mood: angry
WOW what a bunch of DRAMA I am so tired of it all. I HAVE KEPT MY MOUTH SHUT ALL THIS TIME AND NOW I AM GOING TO LET IT ALL OUT. I am so ANGRY ABOUT WHAT SAM SAID IN HER POST TO MY SISTER SHE HAD NO RIGHT WHAT SO EVER TO SAY WHAT SHE DID KARISSA NEVER SAID ANYTHING MEAN TO HER SAM IS THE ONE WHO BUTTED IN KARISSA AND JORDANS BUSINESS AND NOW SHE IS SAYING ITS KARISSAS FAULT BULL CRAP AND NOW VAUGHN IS COMING BACK AT KARISSA AND MY DAD ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS VAUGHN BETTER WATCH OUT I THINK HIS GIRLFRIEND MIGHT HAVE A THING FOR JORDAN AND THATS WHY SHE KEEPS POSTING IN HIS JOURNAL AND IMING HIM AND SAYING YOUR SO FUNNY HAHA. KARISSA DOES NOT OWE VAUGHN NOR SAM AN APPOLGY THEY WERE THE ONES ACTTING IMMATURE AND EGGING ALL OF THIS ON BY THERE POSTS KARISSA NEVER SAID ONE MEAN THING TO SAM OR VAUGHN IN ANY OF HER POSTS OR IN A IM I JUST WANT TO GET ALL THIS OUT IN THE OPEN. YOU KNOW WHAT IF EITHER OF THEM CARED ABOUT JORDAN LIKE THEY SAY THEY DO THEY WOULD HAVE SEEN WHAT THIS WAS DOING TO THEM AND THEY WOULD HAVE BACKED OFF AND STAYED OUT OF IT AND THEY BOTH KNOW HOW MUCH JORDAN CARES ABOUT KARISSA BUT THEY BOTH SAT THERE AND TALKED CRAP ABOUT HER AND YOU KNOW THE OLD SAYING WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND THEY BOTH SHOULD KEEP THAT ONE IN MIND CAUSE IT JUST MAY HAPPEN TO THEM YOU NEVER KNOW YOU MIGHT THINK YOU HAVE THE STRONGEST RELATIONSHIP BUT ALL IT COULD TAKE IS ONE LITTLE THING/PERSON TO MESS ALL OF THAT UP AND I DONT KNOW HOW SAM CAN SAY SHE HAS BEEN NOTHING BUT SUPPORTIVE AND NICE MAYBE TO JORDAN BUT NEVER ONCE TO KARISSA. I AM DONE
Bree, you haven't kept your mouth shut this whole time, you've been getting involved more than Vaughn and I have. Vaughn and I only gave our opinions where it was asked for, usually by Jordan due to completely being confused or hurt by Karissa's actions. Them breaking up wasn't what anyone wanted, but the reason was definitely not because he likes me more than Karissa. I will say it again, Jordan and Vaughn are best friends. I am always with Vaughn practically, therefore if I hang with Vaughn and Jordan wants to hang, Vaughn won't ditch me in order to hang with Jordan, we'll all hang together, and as friends I think we're allowed to do that. I understand Karissa wanting to be the only girl in his life, but getting on Jordan't aim and deleting and blocking me wasn't mature and which led to me questioning our friendship. Karissa may never have said anything mean in person to me, but I could hear her through the phone sitting there and blaming me, when I didn't even KNOW I was involved. When I heard this I got upset, not only because I don't want to be blamed for ruining a relationship, but because I haven't done anything but try and help Karissa understand. I did call her the other day, and told her they needed to talk in person. I was still upset with her about blocking and deleting me, because there was no need to be threatened by me at all, because I am head over heels in love with Vaughn, as many of my livejournal and personal friends are aware. He even has a promise ring to prove that, which brings me to my next point. I don't know who you or anyone else think they are to tell my boyfriend that he should and I quote watch out. That is completely ridiculous. I am 17 years old and cheating, or hurting Vaughn in any way would absolutely kill me inside. Also, Karissa doesn't owe us an apology? For one, we did try to stay out of it, until Karissa i*med Vaughn asking where her boyfriend was. Forgive me if I'm wrong, but that's dragging my boyfriend into it, which in turn drags me into it because Vaughn and I have no secrets from each other. True we do know Jordan does care or cared, I don't honestly know at this moment, about Karissa, and that is why he went to us for advice about how to fix things. Before you get upset at me you might want to check your facts on many of your allegations. To Rick, I am sorry for my foul language in my previous post, and the things I said about Karissa, but from my perspective, none of your family knows me well enough to say that I am the reason that Jordan and her broke up. Indeed both Vaughn and myself were asked for advice and indeed we gave it as best as we could. No human being is perfect, and relationships often call for advice in times of trouble. I had no problem with Karissa, and I tried to be the bigger person, until I heard the phone conversation yesterday, in which I found out the fighting was about me. I understand jealousy and worrying about cheating, but Jordan is not that type of person and I have known him only four months. To be accused of such ridiculous things honestly makes me upset, because before talking to me, she assumed I was the threat. If Karissa had a problem with me she should have talked to me, no one else, but me. Jordan is my friend, and I will not stop being his friend for some unknown reason, or some stupid allegations. He has done nothing to insult or hurt me in any way, and he did the right thing in not only telling Karissa that I mean nothing to him, which is true, as we are friends, and nothing more, and he is so incredibly happy for me and Vaughn, but also telling her the truth and letting her know it was not his intention to hurt her, which anyone can see was not at all the intention. As for what goes around comes around, the only thing that I can have karma kick me for is that livejournal post, which it indeed is by being harassed yet again on the internet. I did not get involved in your relationship (Karissa and Jordan) to destroy it, I only got involved to try and help when my help was wanted. To wish bad things on my and Vaughn's relationship is truly horrible because we never once wished bad things on yours (Jordan I know you don't this is in reference to what Bree said.) I just hope that you guys will take this post to heart, and take my apologies for the previous one. If not I have been the bigger person in saying my side calmly and letting you know I do not appreciate this harassment. Please let it end with this post and if you would be so kind stop blaming me for what happened. I would be very grateful also if you stopped talking about me, because in all honesty not even Karissa knows me well enough to judge me. She has not taken the time to get to know me, because we did indeed rarely talk unless it was her asking me questions about Jordan.
Thank you and have a nice day.