So I haven't updated lately and I just figured out really why... I used to always use this to write about the troubles of me and Lou... and so I figured that I should write this- its only fitting
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If your best male friend likes you then yeah its a bad idea to tell him things like that...I thought you would've learned when I went all postal with Josh lol. Times like those you might want to use the big bother card...I mean if anything they wont go all postal about it and both Steve and Mikey are smart when it comes to that sort of stuff.
You have a good point with your reason to want to be alone and trust me i've been there. That was my excuse until I guess you could say this year....the sucky thing is that if you build a invisible wall around yourself, you start shutting out people you care about as well. Its ok to take a break from male searching, but not good to just say "I'll be alone forever so there" becuase you'll miss out on something good...kinda like where I am I guess you could say. I've used your reasoning for being alone and look at me, I missed out on 1 maybe 2 awsome girls becuase of it (this year atleast).
lol I know its kinda wierd me telling you these things, but when you look at things from a outside point of view, the answers seem a lot clearer than while your in it all. Its a kool theory that I will post about someday lol. I really don't want to see you more shut down on the socialization thing than you are now. You are a fun girl to hang with and it will just suck if you just gave up completely.
Sorry for the longness of this comment, you know me I type stories lol.
You have a good point with your reason to want to be alone and trust me i've been there. That was my excuse until I guess you could say this year....the sucky thing is that if you build a invisible wall around yourself, you start shutting out people you care about as well. Its ok to take a break from male searching, but not good to just say "I'll be alone forever so there" becuase you'll miss out on something good...kinda like where I am I guess you could say. I've used your reasoning for being alone and look at me, I missed out on 1 maybe 2 awsome girls becuase of it (this year atleast).
lol I know its kinda wierd me telling you these things, but when you look at things from a outside point of view, the answers seem a lot clearer than while your in it all. Its a kool theory that I will post about someday lol. I really don't want to see you more shut down on the socialization thing than you are now. You are a fun girl to hang with and it will just suck if you just gave up completely.
Sorry for the longness of this comment, you know me I type stories lol.
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