I felt like posting this picture. I think it's probably the most flattering picture of me out there. I've come to terms with the fact that 99% of the time, I'm hideously un-photogenic.
Lolita clothes have become a bit of a motivator for me. Not only do I feel extremely comfortable in them, I'm also happier and more confidant when I do. It still annoys me that you get the occasional asshat who gawks at you and makes those stupid remarks. But oh well, it is an alternative fashion...