The (almost) three month update, along with other thoughts.

[ragdollgirl]

There is so much to write about....

Three months almost since we married....and it's a joy and a wonder and a discovery every day it seems! We've pretty much finished moving things around our home, our kitties are all adjusted nicely, and we're learning each other's habits and quirks...and that is interesting in it's own right...

The other things

Comments

[deevadeluxe]

I think it's about survival...and I think people can let things go....but to a point. If letting everything go is going to put you in a precarious situation of going through the same shit again with similar people...then you need to educate yourself as to what messed you up, why it messed you up, and the measures you will go through to make sure you don't have to deal with that shit again. Now, if one is educated enough to be able to reflect on the past, know what they won't tolerate, and then let go of the pain in order to become less bitter and more fulfilled with their lives, then by all means...let it go...let it all go. I think I am somewhere in the middle. I can too easily forget the crap people have done to me, iniviting them to take another round out of me...which I refuse to let happen...so in order to keep me grounded I have to remember at least some of the pain so I don't get myself sucked in again. But I'm honest enough to be real with myself and confront that part of me that needs to be like that and why. This world is full of people that will keep taking an extra inch as long as you will allow them to.......but if you don't set solid boundaries, and electrocute their asses when they cross the line...the line will just keep willingly get crossed.