Sep 14, 2007 09:52
so ive decided its time for one of these posts.
im tired of slacker dudes just tryn to get a sugar momma. these guys with no job.. no car..come on give me a break. of course there are some things that you cant help and im really just talkn about the guys that dont have cars and jobs and dont want them basically they live off there parents and just aren’t motivated. and for the record im not some female that wants a guy with money. Please. the only guys ive dated were all poor no cars and most of them didnt have jobs unless i got them a job. i just dont understand how a woman could want to be with a man who cant support her...whos obviously not a leader...how is that attractive?
i must say the slacker men of America are fun..thats why ive dated alot of them (ps ive only had one boyfriend in my life so as you can see it never worked out with these slacker guys) but when it comes down to it women want a man that can protect them, guide them, and comfort them...not some party bro. and for the record when i was seeing one of these slacker/party dudes (back when i dated people) they all were seeing other chicks at the same time...i just think as ive grown older i see what really matters. And its not some dreamy man that can party like a rock star.
its the guy that has goals and is working toward them. Is fun but mellow at the same time...i like what Anne from Anne of Green Gables said "I think i would like it if he could be wicked but wouldnt" ya anyone can be a partier but i not everyone can be responsible, motovated, or even mature when the time is needed.
please understand im basing this opinion on people ive known in the past and i dont think this applies to everyone who doesnt have a car or job.
ps this is not directed to any one person..i was just thinkn is all.