No offense?
Sometimes it's disapointing when you find out that a person is a girl, like when you stumble onto an old journal full of thoughts and romance and then a good few pages in you realize the writer is female, not the handsome soul mate you'd imagined!
How 'bout them journals, though? should others read 'em? should they be kept private? what about close friends? what about strangers?
I hope some one has heard of Landmark Volunteers?