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May 04, 2008 16:56

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quixoticgirl May 5 2008, 18:35:16 UTC
nah, i haven't been updating. i got a job at starbucks a couple weeks ago:) it's great, my coworkers are awesome and it's really fun work. i haven't been sleeping this well in a year or two... it's nice.

i don't know where the sex life came from. all of a sudden i'm just ready to feel intimacy with the hubby again and it's so nice. we have our two year anniversary on memorial day weekend and i feel like this is just a really good sign:)

i never thought i'd marry into a family that i couldn't get along with. but i get along with my father in law and my brothers in law, just not my MIL. my big thing since we moved down here has been movie nights for the family. we have a special dinner, get movie candy and watch a movie all together as a family. debi has always called them off if one of the guys couldn't make it. but she wanted to do one this week and i told her i work most of the nights. so she was like "well maybe we can just get a movie becky won't like and then she won't miss out." it really pissed me off. i told her to go ahead, but i know she won't because i know it would only be her and my FIL. i would hope josh would boycott it due to the fact that she's being bitchy about it.

sigh.

as for sex life, just try something out of character. like even if you feel tired or not in the mood, do something sexy like suggest a shower together after the kids are asleep:) that's what i did and it really paid off big time. i got a massage and everything!

<3

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vlk40 May 5 2008, 19:00:33 UTC
I will have to try something different. I think my main problem is that I have always been slender, and now with the thyroid I have put on a little bit of weight, and I feel unattractive. :( So that definitely doesn't help the sex drive!! Plus it makes you tired, and it just plain kills the desire. But I have started exercising again, and I feel a bit of difference already, so I'll keep my fingers crossed!!

So glad you like your job and co-workers!! A good job can make a lot of difference in your life- you are very lucky to have that!! And it sounds like you MIL doesn't like the fact that your son has another woman in his life- it's like competition for her. That would be so darn frustrating- so sorry you have to deal with it. :( She doesn't sound very nice.

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quixoticgirl May 5 2008, 22:22:46 UTC
i hear you about the weight thing. when my hubby and i met, i was about 135 pounds. now after two babies and a lot of poor eating habits, i'm up to 190. it's quite a bit of weight and i feel so unattractive. but luckily, he tells me all the time how beautiful and attractive he finds me. i was bemoaning my ugly body the other night and just to prove me wrong, he just got me naked and i think that was the turning point where i realized that he still thinks i'm sexy, even if i am really overweight for my body. gotta love a man who can do that, huh? :)

debi definitely is a control freak. josh was originally very nervous to tell her when we got engaged and found out jonah was on the way, and i didn't understand at the time. she seemed really cool. now that i live with her, i see her true colors and i sometimes feel angry enough with her to incite violence. gah!!

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vlk40 May 5 2008, 23:18:22 UTC
hehe, I meant to say "her son" not "your son"! What a sweet hubby you have!!! You know you have someone who is a good person when they accept you for the way that you are- some husbands want something that looks like she stepped out of Playboy magazine, and they would leave their wives or cheat if they gain any weight!!

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vlk40 May 5 2008, 23:19:43 UTC
I meant to say my hubby is the same way too, he is very loving and always accepting. He has never said one word about the weight gain, although he isn't too thrilled with the lack of sex drive. :( Poor guy.

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