The good, the bad, and the UGLY

Mar 13, 2008 18:05

The Good ( Read more... )

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dianaingeborg March 14 2008, 17:03:57 UTC
I am glad about the well baby check up, you are taking such good care of her, very lucky baby

the rest stinks, it just stinks,
is there any way to get your credit history cleaned up? I mean it wasn't you!

MIL is not nice, ok, there, I have been polite about it.
sheesh
get the food stamps, get some freedom and power over your food, it's important and you'll be paying it all back in taxes in the long run. You deserve it, you deserve food that doesn't poison your system
get out of her house
you deserve it!
I wish I could be Nona's day care. I would love that so much ............. the lady that gets her will be so lucky, such a sweet baby

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quixoticgirl March 14 2008, 18:03:44 UTC
i wish you could be her day care too! then i would KNOW for SURE she was in wonderful hands:) i'm really nervous at the thought of leaving her with someone because i've heard so many horror stories. plus, anyone else isn't me. that makes me sad to think about.

we'll be figuring out ways to escape this situation as soon as possible. i'm looking forward to when we move on to the university campus into family housing. they have meal plans and such that i can use to eat vegan-friendly foods. sigh.

and i'm working on getting those things off my credit. it may take awhile though:(

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dianaingeborg March 14 2008, 18:24:48 UTC
I promise I would feed her nice vegan food, I'd let her try to eat herself when she gets bigger and make a mess of my kitchen and not shovel the food in her to keep things neat.
I'd sit and talk with while she eats even if I am not eating myself
I'd eat healthy nice food with her so she know adults need good food too
I'd never try to make her eat more than she wants to.

I'd not use chemicals on her or the things she touches, or the air she breathes.
I'd love CD and make her some extra to have at my place, I'd use cloth wipes and bibs.

I'd sing to her and carry her in a sling. I'd let her see what I was doing and I'd take her out in the fresh air every day.
I would write down any "firsts" I experience and make a journal for her.

man, maybe I should get into day-care!

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quixoticgirl March 14 2008, 18:39:17 UTC
*sigh* that sounds so perfect. jeez i need to move to sweden! then i'd know she was in excellent hands:)

*sniffle*

and while my MIL uses the cloth diapers and wipes, she's still always using abrasive chemicals like clorox bleach and such to clean the house and wash things. it makes me nervous but i guess my hubby survived the same environment while he was growing up... i just want to have as natural a home as possible, you know?

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dianaingeborg March 14 2008, 20:35:30 UTC
awww
I would love to have her and to see you on a regular basis, you have a way of talking and thinking that really appeals to me.

I do know about natural homes, :( my DH got asthma from her smoking around him and she actually still smokes and wants to smoke around us, she smoked in the same room as I was breastfeeding in once, man did that ever tick me off.

get your sweeties out of there, no good for any of you!

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