well I really hope that you understand that I am not the two-faced type. Whatever imposition you feel that I have placed on your relationship was already there. It just happened to come to light in the midst of my presence. I have never put anything past you or your husband. I don't put anything past anyone. But it does come as a shock that you think that a week at your house could possibly ruin a 7yr relationship.Hmm? I don't think so. You can not fix a house with Elmer's glue. And you can't fix a relationship with alcohol. You are not running from problems with me...those have always been there. Jealousy, spite,vengeance... But the problems that you have with yourself become emotionally invasive when others notice them too. Maybe you feel that your personal thoughts, emotions, hygiene,etc. have been exploited and ridiculed. I wasn't doing that. I have spoken to you about the things that I was spoken to about you. So don't act like I was telling Phil one thing and you another. Because I told Phil what my view was on the situation. And I reiterated it to you upon your arrival at the house. The only thing that I was upset about was the cigarette water that Xani drank. All that other stuff was a waste of breath. Trust me, a spilled cup of ashes is not what ruined your relationship. Nor can you honestly say that had we not come over, you would not be contemplating the dissolution of your marriage. That was in progress long before Labor Day. You are not wrong and the only bitch I called you was on NYE. Luv ya like a sis...Oh you still are! If you would be more comfortable if I do not hold conversations with your husband concerning you, I won't do it. Just understand that I NEVER have omitted info from you. I don't know what Phil told you and I am not going to stir up more commotion by replaying those conversations. You can hold as much truth or falsifications to the things that you have heard. YOU KNOW ME>>>AND I HAVE NEVER BEEN ONE TO BITE MY TONGUE>>>I WILL NOT BE LIED ON AND IF YOU THINK WE ALL NEED TO SIT AND TALK, IT CAN HAPPEN.
If you don't like something I've said talk to your mother...girliespeedraceJanuary 4 2005, 00:39:17 UTC
Mom said that you sat there telling her that I drink all the time... Phil said that you said I don't ever clean up when I come home from work...
No, I did not say that my relationship was perfect before you guys came over but saying one thing to me and another to him doesn't help when he & I are arguing about a subject and he's heard one thing from you guys (supposedly) and I know an entirely different thing to be true.
I'm not jealous of anything or anyone, I do hate being lied on/about... this is not something that I can "sit down" and talk it out about right now... I have too much stuff going on with me.
You are not wrong and the only bitch I called you was on NYE.
Luv ya like a sis...Oh you still are!
If you would be more comfortable if I do not hold conversations with your husband concerning you, I won't do it.
Just understand that I NEVER have omitted info from you. I don't know what Phil told you and I am not going to stir up more commotion by replaying those conversations. You can hold as much truth or falsifications to the things that you have heard. YOU KNOW ME>>>AND I HAVE NEVER BEEN ONE TO BITE MY TONGUE>>>I WILL NOT BE LIED ON AND IF YOU THINK WE ALL NEED TO SIT AND TALK, IT CAN HAPPEN.
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No, I did not say that my relationship was perfect before you guys came over but saying one thing to me and another to him doesn't help when he & I are arguing about a subject and he's heard one thing from you guys (supposedly) and I know an entirely different thing to be true.
I'm not jealous of anything or anyone, I do hate being lied on/about... this is not something that I can "sit down" and talk it out about right now... I have too much stuff going on with me.
I guess I'll talk to you guys later.
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