Things I am working on
Blog topics:
1. Speaking
2. Writing
3. Handling situations
4. Setting priorities
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1. One thing I need to work on is my speaking. Speaking in general for me is not bad, although I tend to speak fast and not always as clearly as I should. It was harder for me when I was younger and I have come a long way, but there is still room for improvement.
I just came from WXCI to do a quick weather blurb on-air and I already had an improvement over my first time. What I need to do is slow myself down, be articulate and get the message across in an easy to understand way.
When it comes to presentations, I never liked to do speaking in front of the class and now that I am going to be broadcasting weather forecasts, it is going to become a necessity.
And just in general, whether it's with customers at work or just my friends when we hang out, I want people to understand me and not have to repeat myself because I didn't take the time to speak to the best of my ability.
2. My handwriting is not great, this is something I have been aware of for quite some time. When I slow myself down, my handwriting really is not bad, especially for a boy. =P My problem comes from writing too fast (what a surprise) and not being careful. Note-taking is one thing, but I really need to just write better. On the side, I have practiced writing the alphabet and numbers. When I write them one by one, there's no problem, but I need to just let things flow. I want to have nice handwriting and for anyone who picks up a paper of mine, they should be able to read it without any issues.
3. The way I handle situations is being revamped. I am finally accepting and realizing that I need to have my best interests in mind. I cannot just settle for whatever is dished out to me. I am polite and courteous, so I should take advantage of the fact that if I ask something of someone, they should be able to give it to me.
I have had a tendency to let people take advantage of me in the past, but that's changing. It has already changed, but there is more room for development.
4. I'm finally setting some strong priorities. I am not afraid to pick and choose. Whether it comes to relationships or everyday decisions, I should always aim for the best. I am finally keeping up with cleaning the apartment on a regular basis, I cleaned out most of my car and I am trying to balance work and school. I am still not studying as much as I should be, but I want to have some time to relax as well. I am going to focus on completing my degree and balancing both school and work. At the same time, I want to do well in both areas, so we'll see how that works together. Honestly, I am more worried about details at work, especially since without money, I would be totally screwed. At school, I am doing decently and in the end, my degree is what matters most. The difference between a B and a C in a difficult class is not a huge deal to me. The difference between making more or less money, though, is huge.
When it does come to relationships, I am finally understanding that I am not ready for a serious relationship right now. I need to focus on school and work, especially since they take up the vast majority of my time. I'm not saying that if a friendship developed into something more serious I would not commit myself, but I cannot go into every relationship and have things move too fast. I want to have fun and enjoy myself, meet new people and have a good time in life. Things are quickly changing and it looks like I may be done with school for the rest of my life is just 7 months...
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Summary:
The way I speak is being worked on. I have a habit of talking fast and not always articualting my works, but I am improving. If I do want to be a broadcast meteorologist, I really need to be able to communicate my message in a clear mannar. It will come with time and I have already improved substantially.
I'm working on my handwriting. It's really not that great, but when I slow myself down and write carefully, it's actually quite neat. Although I live a fast-paced life, I need to work on just taking the time to write more clearly and be able to have my handwriting read by anyone who picks up something I wrote.
I am handling situations better and will continue to work on that. I am respectful and have most people's respect, so it should not a hard thing for me to ask someone for something and have that request fulfilled. I have had a tendency in the past to let people take advantage of me, but that will not continue!
Priorities are being set in my life. I have to focus on school and work and not let other things get in the way. Graduation is coming up fast. I want to make the last months of college great and then I can get ready for diving out into the real world!