Mar 01, 2006 22:37
I was hanging out with my good pal Charley Webber the other day. This was after I bought 2 packs of cigarettes, a rarity in my life nowadays. We was haning out and I had a great time smoking cigarettes. I get a bad rep every now and then for smoking when I do. So I says to him, "You think I should smoke cigarettes?" and he says very simply, "Well do you like smoking them?". I don't know about you dudes, and I know that Charley doesn't know this, but that made me respect him a lot. It also made me appreciate him as a friend. I didn't bother telling him this because it doesn't matter and wouldn't make sense for me to tell him so.
This makes him a great guy because he didn't say that they are bad for you no you shouldn't smoke. I know this. Both grandparents on my mother's side have died of cancer from smoking. Also, he said, "Well do you like smoking them?" not because he doesn't care about me, but because he trusts me to make a sound decision. He's not going to talk my ear off about something he knows nothing about. I'm a thinker and tend to analyze things. He's a good balance for me. A nice simple do what you want and what you like was nice. There are things that I should do because I like them. Occam's Razor will tell me that the easiest answer is most often the correct one. Kid also likes to have fun, which is what I equate Charley with. Fun. He will have a good time regardless of what the prerequisites are. He's a very fun guy to be happy with.
This just made me think of Ryan Dooley. This kid treats me good. I have a connection with him that is overwhelming at times. It's a nice balance though because we have many differences and we accept them, which I often have a difficult time doing. We can disagree with eachother with little to no tension. I don't exactly know how or why our humor is so important to us, but it represents who we are. I cant put into words what this kid does for me.
These two guys came to see me when I got out of jail. It meant a lot to me that they also fixed my slashed tires that people forgot about. It would have been completely fine if they didn't do those two things. I didn't NEED them by any means, but it was amazing that they did what they did.
This made me think of Frank Urbano. He didn't have to be there, He's on the same level as these two bros. I have a unique relationship with this dude. He is extremely funny in ways that I can never see comming. He's doing what he's doing and I respect that. He also is very adamant on not letting things bother him, and it's ok if they do, but he likes to be happy, so why feel bad. Good guy for that.
Jake Gayness. I like talking to this broski. Also did not need to be there, on par with brohams 1, 2, and 3. He seems to listen and participate in coversation rather well. It's assuring that I can talk to him for four hours whenever I want. He also has a lot of interests like pool. I like recreational activities a lot and rarely have friends to do them with. He also has a posture that could shrink time.
In conclusion, I think Oriental people are uptight.