[ooc: D_M prompt 010; from Jillibean]
1. Be John Sheppard Having her authority undermined publically.
2. Having other people try to make decisions for her. (I'm looking at you, snackonthis.)
3. Hurt someone she cares about.
4. Hurt someone she's responsible for.
5. ...yeah, be John Sheppard. He drives her nuts.
One surefire way of making it up to her:
Express remorse, right whatever you did wrong, and give her coffee.