As for Ashley falling back into old habits because of Michael leaving her (or Sarah 'taking him', whichever delusional excuse you choose to use), SO WHAT. My God, how is that Michael's fault? How is that Sarah's fault? No one ever put a gun to her head and commanded she do drugs. That was HER CHOICE and HER CHOICE alone. I've been broken up with before, and while I may have fallen back into old habits as a result of how depressed I was, I never ever had the audacity to blame it on anyone else. You deal with it, pick yourself up off the ground, and move the fuck on. Another lesson learned. Ashley chose to buy the drugs, smoke the weed, snort the line, do whatever the fuck it was she did. No one else. So please, stop with the bullshit about how poor little Ashley was feeling rejected and started doing heroin and smoking crack and stealing from people's grandmothers to get her fix. That was a path SHE chose, and she needs to fucking own up to it. As long as she is blaming her drug addiction and current problems on the actions of other people, she will never get better. The end.
Now, as for Sarah. I have held my tongue regarding a few things here, and while Sarah has bossed Michael around and snapped at him, been unreasonable, and did stupid shit, it still does not compare to Ashley. At least, if nothing else, Sarah is actually owning up to her mistakes and admitting she made them, and is willing to change, rather than hiding behind an addiction and saying it's someone else's fault.
Regarding Sarah's cheating.. don't make me go there. I was quite honestly horrified that it happened, and appalled that Michael took her back. I would never have taken someone back if they so much as kissed another person, and maybe that's Michael being weak and whipped and spineless, or maybe he is forgiving and knows Sarah well enough to see that she knows she made a horrible mistake, and is willing to do everything possible to make up for it.
And see, that is the difference between Sarah and Ashley. They both fuck up, they have both done awful fucking things to him. The difference is, Sarah knows it. Sarah is making a difference in herself, to ensure she changes and nothing like that ever happens again. She is willing to admit her mistakes and flaws, and she loves Michael enough to try. Ashley is in denial, and thinks she did nothing wrong, everything is everyone else's fault, and that the world is out to fucking get her, and that Sarah is this awful 'cheating slut' who stole her man.
Boo. Fucking. Hoo.
Ashley, you've cheated before. Does this make you a 'cheating slut', unworthy of another chance, unworthy of being in a relationship with someone you love? It's easy for you to call Sarah that, because you hate her and in your warped little head, you think she stole Michael. But if the tables were turned, how would you feel?
Also, stop hiding behind your mother. You are 18 years old. An adult. I realize you still live at home and all that, but why don't you fight your own battles, instead of running to her any time something goes wrong, and having her call the shots, call Michael, etc. etc.
I talk to Sarah and see her on a near-daily basis, and she knows how I feel regarding her, what has happened, what is going on, etc. This is why this comment is about you. Sarah has her faults and I have my gripes with her, but we deal with those elsewhere. So by no means do I think Sarah is angelic and awesome and faultless, and you are this terrible bitch. I just think you have a lot of fucking faults, and need a huge fucking reality check.. along with Kari, along with your mother, along with a lot of people.
If you choose to hate me, whatever, that is your decision, I can't stop you. But I was friends with you for enough years to have learned by now that biting my tongue when it comes to you does me no good.
I really appreciate all of the honesty that you give me and I know that you dissaprove of some of the things that I've done/do. In all honesty, you're my best friend and I don't know what I would do without you. Thank you for everything. Thank you for your side. I never really got to know everything you wanted to say. Call me when you get this/wake up. We'll go do something.
:CLAPS: :CLAPS LOUDER: Thank you someone else fucking gets it! And the reason why I went back to Sarah is because I thought about her the whole time when she was gone and the only thing that I wanted was Sarah back because I'm in love with her. Yes she made a mistake and it was a bad mistake but I understand why she made the mistake and that's something we learned on our own.
In conclution, we are all sorry for the things we've done and bitching and complaining is not going to help anything. So I think if you can't be fucking mature and hear both sides of the story then don't fucking open you mouth or post. Because you are the one looking like a fucking idiot not knowing what the hell is going on and trying to get involved in other people's business.
Now, as for Sarah. I have held my tongue regarding a few things here, and while Sarah has bossed Michael around and snapped at him, been unreasonable, and did stupid shit, it still does not compare to Ashley. At least, if nothing else, Sarah is actually owning up to her mistakes and admitting she made them, and is willing to change, rather than hiding behind an addiction and saying it's someone else's fault.
Regarding Sarah's cheating.. don't make me go there. I was quite honestly horrified that it happened, and appalled that Michael took her back. I would never have taken someone back if they so much as kissed another person, and maybe that's Michael being weak and whipped and spineless, or maybe he is forgiving and knows Sarah well enough to see that she knows she made a horrible mistake, and is willing to do everything possible to make up for it.
And see, that is the difference between Sarah and Ashley. They both fuck up, they have both done awful fucking things to him. The difference is, Sarah knows it. Sarah is making a difference in herself, to ensure she changes and nothing like that ever happens again. She is willing to admit her mistakes and flaws, and she loves Michael enough to try. Ashley is in denial, and thinks she did nothing wrong, everything is everyone else's fault, and that the world is out to fucking get her, and that Sarah is this awful 'cheating slut' who stole her man.
Boo. Fucking. Hoo.
Ashley, you've cheated before. Does this make you a 'cheating slut', unworthy of another chance, unworthy of being in a relationship with someone you love? It's easy for you to call Sarah that, because you hate her and in your warped little head, you think she stole Michael. But if the tables were turned, how would you feel?
Also, stop hiding behind your mother. You are 18 years old. An adult. I realize you still live at home and all that, but why don't you fight your own battles, instead of running to her any time something goes wrong, and having her call the shots, call Michael, etc. etc.
I talk to Sarah and see her on a near-daily basis, and she knows how I feel regarding her, what has happened, what is going on, etc. This is why this comment is about you. Sarah has her faults and I have my gripes with her, but we deal with those elsewhere. So by no means do I think Sarah is angelic and awesome and faultless, and you are this terrible bitch. I just think you have a lot of fucking faults, and need a huge fucking reality check.. along with Kari, along with your mother, along with a lot of people.
If you choose to hate me, whatever, that is your decision, I can't stop you. But I was friends with you for enough years to have learned by now that biting my tongue when it comes to you does me no good.
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In conclution, we are all sorry for the things we've done and bitching and complaining is not going to help anything. So I think if you can't be fucking mature and hear both sides of the story then don't fucking open you mouth or post. Because you are the one looking like a fucking idiot not knowing what the hell is going on and trying to get involved in other people's business.
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