Nov 09, 2009 15:14
I'd say love evolves, rather than being instant. I certainly didn't love Justin the first time we met. His hair was super short and he was wearing a suit for no readily apparent reason. But we exchanged LJs and got to know each other a bit better. On our first date though, I think the chemistry was pretty immediate, but not love at first sight. It was more: this guy's kinda cool, this guy's really cool, this is the best date ever, I'm totally keeping this guy. So, still evolving.
I'm not really big on second chances. I figure you had a reason to break up, so unless something significant has changed, there's no reason to get back together.
instant love,
writer's block