Can someone explain this to me? (x-posted from myspace)
Why do people feel the need to dislike, hate or obsess over people that they have never actually spoken to, or have maybe spoken to once or twice 3 or 4 years ago?
I've had a couple of encounters recently involving some people who tend to do this. it's happened before as well, where people i've never actually spoken to before automatically decide to hate be for whatever reason (which nobody seems to be able to understand).
If you have an issue with me, whatever it is, thats fine, everybody has issues with everyone at one point or another. But going out of your way to point out that you have issues with me to everybody except me is a little childish. It's the way you'd expect people to act in highschool maybe, or primary school, but not now.
also, basing an opinion of someone as they presently are on a 5 minute conversation 3247132647362 years ago is a little stupid too. Particularly if that was a drunken one or whatever.
If you have an issue with me, tell me, I'm not going to bite your head off. Its better to have those issues in the open or discussed and concluded upon than creating controversy for the sake of it. unless thats what you're craving. a reason to bitch and moan.
If your so starved for things to complain about or bitch about that you need to bitch about me then thats just a little bit sad. life can't possibly be that boring can it?
I've had a couple of encounters recently involving some people who tend to do this. it's happened before as well, where people i've never actually spoken to before automatically decide to hate be for whatever reason (which nobody seems to be able to understand).
If you have an issue with me, whatever it is, thats fine, everybody has issues with everyone at one point or another. But going out of your way to point out that you have issues with me to everybody except me is a little childish. It's the way you'd expect people to act in highschool maybe, or primary school, but not now.
also, basing an opinion of someone as they presently are on a 5 minute conversation 3247132647362 years ago is a little stupid too. Particularly if that was a drunken one or whatever.
If you have an issue with me, tell me, I'm not going to bite your head off. Its better to have those issues in the open or discussed and concluded upon than creating controversy for the sake of it. unless thats what you're craving. a reason to bitch and moan.
If your so starved for things to complain about or bitch about that you need to bitch about me then thats just a little bit sad. life can't possibly be that boring can it?