The letter to my Boss
Nick,
There are many things that I know for a fact based on what you asked me the other day, if David and I were still friends; that you don’t know. First off, I want to impress that everything I say in this letter to you are all FACTS. I’ll try not to put too much emotion or subjective information but for certain subjects I’m afraid I can’t help but let some slip.
First off I’ll start with the “smaller” things that David has done since a few days into his work. David tends, mostly after Aleigh is gone, and when Emilio isn’t here altogether, to take off his shoes. At first this was something that would only happen in the back office, but then he’d started wandering through the hotel barefooted (I know at least one account of this happening, otherwise mostly with socks on. Chris also saw him walking through the lobby). When you’d ask him what he thought he was doing, he’d simply say that his shoes are uncomfortable, and/or laugh and shrug it off. Second, he tends to wander off to the bar frequently despite the fact that he is on the clock and he is under age. He wasn’t any good to us up at the front desk if he was over in the bar all the time watching TV(if you have any questions on this feel free to ask Chris, he came up front and complained to Ivan about keeping David in line. This was maybe a week ago at most.). He’ll be over at the bar for hours only to emerge to take a smoke break or something of that sort. Third, he has downloaded; I don’t know what, on the back computer. Apparently that’s the only one that will allow you to, making it slower than ever (you can confirm his inquiries to Ivan about an admistrative password to get onto Aleigh’s computer, and she has also heard him talk about downloading.). Fourth, he has been caught multiple times just lounging in the lobby, and has been caught by Ivan asleep in the lobby and other areas. In detail (this is Ivan’s story, talk to him if you have further questions), David asked to take a smoke break and Ivan of course said yes. About a half an hour goes by and Ivan is wondering what has happened to his employee. He walks out and looks around the lobby to find David stretched out on one of the couches asleep. The most recent happening was just a couple nights ago; he did the same thing asking to take a smoke break. Ivan doesn’t realize that David is back from his break; in fact he was asleep in Emilio’s office. He comes out of the room rubbing his eyes asking if Ivan had called for him, and he has no pants on. He’s in the office in only his boxer shorts. At that point Ivan told him to go home. Fifth, he smokes constantly, and he can never sit still. Ivan, Aleigh and I had to tell him multiple times to tell us when he leaves the front desk if he’s the only one up there because every few minutes he’d leave and not tell us. We had no idea he was gone until a guest would walk up calling for someone at the desk.
Now, I’ll be moving on to the, what I consider, “bigger” points. These are more personal offenses he’s made against me. Ivan has been present for pretty much all of these, and he actually reminded me of one thing David said that I had completely forgotten about, so he may in fact remember more than I do. David has in fact at the very least verbally harassed me to an extreme extent. I’ll give you some examples of things that he’s said to me.
At first he’d just call me a Hussy. I didn’t like it but I didn’t mind it either, that was at that point the only thing that he’d tease me about because of the guys that I was dating. And as you know he’d flirt with me, but he’d flirt heavily, he’d actually told me that if I decided to have sex with him, we’d get a room at the Yarrow. As in, sneak into a room and do it. Sad part is that he was completely serious. He’d talk and boast about sex all the time as if trying to convince me to have sex with him. That lasted for a couple of weeks. Then he’d start making comments about me being easy, exact quotes from Ivan, David said that he liked Eastern European girls because they are easy. Ivan asked, “What does easy mean?” David, “You know, girls who are easy to have sex with.” Then he pointed at me and said “like Amanda.” Sexually wise he has slapped my butt after telling me to pinch his. And randomly he’d find ways to touch me by putting his arm around me, or he’d walk up behind me and hug me from behind. He asked me to cuddle once, and of course I said no. He makes me uncomfortable, he really does.
Now, like I said, I’ve forgotten a lot of things that he’s said to me, but one night in particular really stands out in my mind because he said very offensive and disgusting things that night. At this point I was dating someone, and David was over at my place because he was sort of dating Shelby. This is rather personal information, but it needs to be known to get the picture fully. He and I had done some intimate things, and David knew it because he was there. A couple nights later after bugging and teasing me about how “quick” it was he asks me this, “So did he go down on you?” I just looked at him. “I’ll take that as a no.” And he laughs then asks me, “Did you give him head?” I was a bit peeved at this point and I replied “No.” Then he says rather loudly, “You bitch!” This catches Ivan’s attention and he asks, “What?” David, “Amanda’s a bitch because she doesn’t give head!” So there’s part one of the night, part two is what really disturbs me. Honestly… I can’t get his words out of my head, he was so serious, and again, Ivan was there, David involved him in it and… well, here it is. The younger Mr. Hart had a guest coming in. It was a woman with her daughter. I’m sitting in back and David is checking them in, suddenly he comes in back rubbing his forehead and he tells me that there’s hot jailbait wearing a mini skirt and if he doesn’t stop staring he’s going to get slapped, he needs me to finish the check in. So I walk out there expecting a 16 year old at the youngest you know? No… she was the oldest 14 years old, she looked around 12, just hitting puberty. This was a little girl. As I’m checking them in he’s standing back there with the luggage cart waiting for them, all the while he’s looking her up and down. When he comes back he starts saying things like, (and this is really hard for me to say, I’ve only repeated it to two people) “Can you imagine how sweet her pussy tastes?” He was completely serious. I expressed to him over and over again how much it bothered me, I asked him over and over again to just stop. I didn’t want to hear what he had to say about her but he’d keep repeating it. He kept telling me how bad he wanted to have a go at her and how delicious she would taste; he kept telling me all these profane things. At one point he leaned in so he was at the most a foot away from my face, and he did it just to bother me. At this point all he would do is push at me and tease me. I know he was serious about the girl because he wouldn’t let it down; he came over for the last time that night and went off to Shelby about it before I even got home. (Another tidbit, back when he’d only been at the Yarrow for maybe a week, he was looking at pictures on the internet. The girls were in at least their undergarments, but the site was to look at the pictures and guess if they were jailbait or not.)
The next day I confronted him and since that point he hasn’t said anything, but his bad work habits have continued. I hope that if there was any chance of keeping him that they are extinguished. I refuse to work with him. I know what goes through his mind and even though he’s no longer verbal with me, I feel highly uncomfortable with him around.
Thank you for taking the time to read this Nick, I feel a bit embarrassed at the fact that I didn’t come to you sooner.
-Amanda Kwiecien
There are many things that I know for a fact based on what you asked me the other day, if David and I were still friends; that you don’t know. First off, I want to impress that everything I say in this letter to you are all FACTS. I’ll try not to put too much emotion or subjective information but for certain subjects I’m afraid I can’t help but let some slip.
First off I’ll start with the “smaller” things that David has done since a few days into his work. David tends, mostly after Aleigh is gone, and when Emilio isn’t here altogether, to take off his shoes. At first this was something that would only happen in the back office, but then he’d started wandering through the hotel barefooted (I know at least one account of this happening, otherwise mostly with socks on. Chris also saw him walking through the lobby). When you’d ask him what he thought he was doing, he’d simply say that his shoes are uncomfortable, and/or laugh and shrug it off. Second, he tends to wander off to the bar frequently despite the fact that he is on the clock and he is under age. He wasn’t any good to us up at the front desk if he was over in the bar all the time watching TV(if you have any questions on this feel free to ask Chris, he came up front and complained to Ivan about keeping David in line. This was maybe a week ago at most.). He’ll be over at the bar for hours only to emerge to take a smoke break or something of that sort. Third, he has downloaded; I don’t know what, on the back computer. Apparently that’s the only one that will allow you to, making it slower than ever (you can confirm his inquiries to Ivan about an admistrative password to get onto Aleigh’s computer, and she has also heard him talk about downloading.). Fourth, he has been caught multiple times just lounging in the lobby, and has been caught by Ivan asleep in the lobby and other areas. In detail (this is Ivan’s story, talk to him if you have further questions), David asked to take a smoke break and Ivan of course said yes. About a half an hour goes by and Ivan is wondering what has happened to his employee. He walks out and looks around the lobby to find David stretched out on one of the couches asleep. The most recent happening was just a couple nights ago; he did the same thing asking to take a smoke break. Ivan doesn’t realize that David is back from his break; in fact he was asleep in Emilio’s office. He comes out of the room rubbing his eyes asking if Ivan had called for him, and he has no pants on. He’s in the office in only his boxer shorts. At that point Ivan told him to go home. Fifth, he smokes constantly, and he can never sit still. Ivan, Aleigh and I had to tell him multiple times to tell us when he leaves the front desk if he’s the only one up there because every few minutes he’d leave and not tell us. We had no idea he was gone until a guest would walk up calling for someone at the desk.
Now, I’ll be moving on to the, what I consider, “bigger” points. These are more personal offenses he’s made against me. Ivan has been present for pretty much all of these, and he actually reminded me of one thing David said that I had completely forgotten about, so he may in fact remember more than I do. David has in fact at the very least verbally harassed me to an extreme extent. I’ll give you some examples of things that he’s said to me.
At first he’d just call me a Hussy. I didn’t like it but I didn’t mind it either, that was at that point the only thing that he’d tease me about because of the guys that I was dating. And as you know he’d flirt with me, but he’d flirt heavily, he’d actually told me that if I decided to have sex with him, we’d get a room at the Yarrow. As in, sneak into a room and do it. Sad part is that he was completely serious. He’d talk and boast about sex all the time as if trying to convince me to have sex with him. That lasted for a couple of weeks. Then he’d start making comments about me being easy, exact quotes from Ivan, David said that he liked Eastern European girls because they are easy. Ivan asked, “What does easy mean?” David, “You know, girls who are easy to have sex with.” Then he pointed at me and said “like Amanda.” Sexually wise he has slapped my butt after telling me to pinch his. And randomly he’d find ways to touch me by putting his arm around me, or he’d walk up behind me and hug me from behind. He asked me to cuddle once, and of course I said no. He makes me uncomfortable, he really does.
Now, like I said, I’ve forgotten a lot of things that he’s said to me, but one night in particular really stands out in my mind because he said very offensive and disgusting things that night. At this point I was dating someone, and David was over at my place because he was sort of dating Shelby. This is rather personal information, but it needs to be known to get the picture fully. He and I had done some intimate things, and David knew it because he was there. A couple nights later after bugging and teasing me about how “quick” it was he asks me this, “So did he go down on you?” I just looked at him. “I’ll take that as a no.” And he laughs then asks me, “Did you give him head?” I was a bit peeved at this point and I replied “No.” Then he says rather loudly, “You bitch!” This catches Ivan’s attention and he asks, “What?” David, “Amanda’s a bitch because she doesn’t give head!” So there’s part one of the night, part two is what really disturbs me. Honestly… I can’t get his words out of my head, he was so serious, and again, Ivan was there, David involved him in it and… well, here it is. The younger Mr. Hart had a guest coming in. It was a woman with her daughter. I’m sitting in back and David is checking them in, suddenly he comes in back rubbing his forehead and he tells me that there’s hot jailbait wearing a mini skirt and if he doesn’t stop staring he’s going to get slapped, he needs me to finish the check in. So I walk out there expecting a 16 year old at the youngest you know? No… she was the oldest 14 years old, she looked around 12, just hitting puberty. This was a little girl. As I’m checking them in he’s standing back there with the luggage cart waiting for them, all the while he’s looking her up and down. When he comes back he starts saying things like, (and this is really hard for me to say, I’ve only repeated it to two people) “Can you imagine how sweet her pussy tastes?” He was completely serious. I expressed to him over and over again how much it bothered me, I asked him over and over again to just stop. I didn’t want to hear what he had to say about her but he’d keep repeating it. He kept telling me how bad he wanted to have a go at her and how delicious she would taste; he kept telling me all these profane things. At one point he leaned in so he was at the most a foot away from my face, and he did it just to bother me. At this point all he would do is push at me and tease me. I know he was serious about the girl because he wouldn’t let it down; he came over for the last time that night and went off to Shelby about it before I even got home. (Another tidbit, back when he’d only been at the Yarrow for maybe a week, he was looking at pictures on the internet. The girls were in at least their undergarments, but the site was to look at the pictures and guess if they were jailbait or not.)
The next day I confronted him and since that point he hasn’t said anything, but his bad work habits have continued. I hope that if there was any chance of keeping him that they are extinguished. I refuse to work with him. I know what goes through his mind and even though he’s no longer verbal with me, I feel highly uncomfortable with him around.
Thank you for taking the time to read this Nick, I feel a bit embarrassed at the fact that I didn’t come to you sooner.
-Amanda Kwiecien