Jun 23, 2006 11:16
Okay…I hate it when I find out shit that involves people I love…That I really don’t want to know about. This guy is cheating on his significant other. Honestly, my husband and I didn’t think he was that type of person. Now we are stuck with this information. Do I tell her? Do I confront him? What the hell do I do? I don’t know if my friendship with either of them is strong enough for him to listen to reason or her to believe me. I hate to see her get hurt but I think she has the right to know… I hate to see him doing this, does he feel unloved? Or just ready to move on and can’t find the words to tell her it’s over. What do I do? I don’t want to stick my nose into other people’s business but….I love them and would hate to see either of them hurt. If it is meant to end then he needs to be a man about it and do it. Not let her find out the hard way. But if they are just in a trouble spot and she’s the best thing that ever happened to him then he needs to realize it and stop cheating. I am most afraid of loosing two good friends…I honestly would hate to see them hurt each other. I know Hubbie and I have our times of trouble…where we are ready to call it quits but in the end we both love each other too much to hurt each other and lose the “best thing” (as my hubbie puts it) in our lives. But I am an outsider. I need advise…. What do we do?