friends, girlfriends
I want a girlfriend who is going to be true to me. Who is going to celebrate in my victories and comfort me in my defeats, and that i can do likewise with her. I want a girlfriend who isnt going to fuck other people I know, like mazen or chrislai or mikemich and such
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In this case, very likely killed something else, trust. If it's still something that is being hung onto, it's still something that has an impact. To simply tell someone to get over it... well, if a guy tells a female that over anything, we get the cold shoulder.
Once something like this happens, it can really send the mind into a downward spiral, it did for me. I mean, hey, if your best friend can go fuck the girl you are dating/with all the while knowing that there is something going on between you two... It really makes you wonder, well gee, if that person would do it, what would stop anyone else from doing it. Better yet, what would stop her from doing that with someone else?
The end solution I am trying to accept is that in my case, I made a bad judge of character on the female side- it does take two to tango. And most guys will do it if they think no one will find out... So the end fix is to keep the females from everyone else until you are positive they are loyal. If they're not, well, that's what the curb is for.
Take one side out of the equation, it won't work, unless it's a rape. And if that happens, that's what castration is for.
However, everyone makes a mistake now and again. If they're truly sorry, and you sense real sincerity, then there's no reason not to let them build trust again if they want to.
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I completely agree, but in this case it seems like Brian and Jenny's relationship has been trampled on and misused (from both sides) that I'm questioning Brian's continued desire for a girl who, from what i can tell, treats him like dirt. He doesn't deserve it. He deserves better.
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My last comment was geared more towards a one time mistake deal thing... Which from my understanding, it is not. I reserve the right to be wrong though.
An old statement was told to one of the law firm's partners when he came to a meeting drunk, for a third time, and it went like this from the head partner..
"You know X, if I ever had my wife cheat on me, come back, and be extremely sorry, I would probably take her back. If she did it a second time, and seemed truly sorry, and promised she'd never do it again, I'd watch her closer, ask her if I was doing something wrong, and still take her back. If she did it a third time, she'd be locked out, and be stuck calling a cab, because I would no longer have anything to do with her... You know where the door is."
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