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Workin!

Nov 06, 2005 01:27

So I just got back from work. My weekend thus far hasn't been too bad. I drove down to Belton last night to see Heather for 20 minutes...which kinda sucked that it was only for 20 minutes, but I ended up staying the night in Belton so that I could see her today. I hooked up with her again around 12:30 or so and we just chilled and enjoyed each ( Read more... )

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errormessage21b November 6 2005, 09:57:44 UTC

Haha, That's the Spirit, It doesn't matter what others think, they can eat a big ol' bag shut the hell up as far as I'm concerned, I support you guys =).

pwaly November 6 2005, 16:17:42 UTC

Yay for JohnE!

aerospider November 6 2005, 19:57:24 UTC

And I support cheese. And corncob pipes.

krealin456 November 6 2005, 20:27:56 UTC

I also support cheese.

greenpotatoes24 November 7 2005, 02:28:29 UTC

I don't support cheese.... but I support the whole Heather and Paul-ness... and I can't post to this without giving an inevitable "awwwwwwwwwwwww"

errormessage21b November 7 2005, 18:29:46 UTC

DOWN WITH CORNCOB PIPES!

dieram November 7 2005, 06:38:09 UTC

John, as far as it not mattering what others think; I'll only agree with that up to a point. Others are able to see the relationship from an objective perspective that isn't available to those involved. I think it does matter what others think, but NO, you SHOULDN'T do what they tell you simply because they tell you to. It is after all, not their choice.

errormessage21b November 7 2005, 07:38:09 UTC

I can see your point, but that's assuming that Paul isn't capable of looking at it from every angle. I'll agree that with most people they do need an "objective" perspective on things (although I completely dis-agree with "objective" perspective, everyone has an agenda, it's sad but true), But I fully trust Paul to put what he feels aside and do whats best for everyone involved, because that's who Paul is. It's just in this case, he has come to the conclusion that it's ok for all parties and all parties will be better from this situation. If it we're pretty much anyone else in the world I would be much more skeptical, but I trust Paul. And I advise other nay-sayers to put THEIR feelings aside and stop bitching and moaning about what's not their business (not you in particular).

That's my two cents.....and my two cents are right.

errormessage21b November 7 2005, 07:39:32 UTC

Anonymous = JohnE

dieram November 7 2005, 22:59:22 UTC

I agree that Paul is capable of detaching himself more than most. But there's just something about love that makes it very very difficult. If you want to go with your "no-one is objective" then there is no such thing as being objective for anything. I agree with that to a point. So possibly the better way to make my statement would have been "more" objective. Now I know you weren't referring to me with your last comment, but I do think that it is their business. Now I agree it's more Paul's business and they should not try to control him in anyway, but anything involving your friend is your business (if you're a good friend anyway). Of course good friends also know when to let things be, though I don't think it makes it any less their business.

That's two more of my cents....and my (four cents I think it is now) is right
Sorry... Couldn't resist

errormessage21b November 9 2005, 02:11:52 UTC

That is exactly where you and I fail to meet, I am adamant about the fact that nothing is anyone else's business unless the afore mentioned person ASKS for their opinion, I just cant see how its right to butt in on this situation with skepticism/criticism when its clearly not wanted ("don't bring that crap to me"). I do think criticism can be a good thing in many ways, but in no way is it good for friends to criticize and opinionate when thier person their subjecting has made it VERY clear that he doesn't want to hear it. You may feel that that's being a good friend but I just cant see it.

That's my 284 golden dollars and every single one is right. =)

Only 283 gold dollars are right dieram November 9 2005, 04:04:06 UTC

Hey John, did you not read the part about a good friend knowing when to let things be? This is obviously one of those times, and we both agree on that. No it's not completely acceptable to bring it to him when he states he doesn't want to hear about it. Especially because in his saying that, it's plain to see that he knows those misgivings exist. The reason someone would bring "that crap" to him is if he didn't know about them already. Now, not all of your 284 golden dollars are right. I would say about 283 of them are. The one about us not meeting on this issue. It seems to me that you just don't agree with the friends bringing it up when he doesn't want them to. Which I agree with (note that I did not talk to Paul about this issue).

Re: Only 283 gold dollars are right errormessage21b November 9 2005, 05:31:13 UTC

Well then we are in agreement, but the reason why I made a strong issue out of the above was because I have talked to Paul about it. We all want whats best for our friends it's just I'm tired of looking around and seeing people talk to him (and not to him) about these things, I dont want people making the mistake of thinking this is one of those times where they should keep critizing. And I know that you don't but I know who does. Stop it.

There, all of our $284.04 are all correct.

Re: Only 283 gold dollars are right eliacek November 9 2005, 06:42:45 UTC

SOLD!!!! For $284.04!

Ha Ha Elisa dieram November 9 2005, 07:41:14 UTC

I love you

Re: Ha Ha Elisa eliacek November 9 2005, 14:04:46 UTC

*kiss* I love you too

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