Feb 08, 2015 00:35
Punishment is not a requirement for redemption or even acknowledgment. You do not need to be punished or declared redeemed by another person to matter as a person or interact with others.
Pysical pain is not a requirement for mental stability.
Just because you could theoretically not do _____ in the best of situations does not mean that not being to prevent ______ means that you did it indtentioanlly and it's your fault.
Example: On good days, you can prevent an anxiety spiral, but this does not mean that on bad days you intentioanlly cause said spiral. Not being able to stop X does not mean you want X to happen.
Side note: Long term parental abuse is a bitch.