May 28, 2010 02:08
So, what does it mean when a guy says "this wouldn't be so hard if it didn't feel so good to hug you"? I mean, really? What wouldn't be so difficult? Making up your mind to be with her or not? In which case, it sounds like everything else about her makes you not want to be with her, but hugging her makes you want to keep her. You're saying if it didn't feel good to hug, then nothing would keep you around? Is that it? What are some other possibilities that it could mean? Are you saying you only want the physical side of things? Because that's not what it's all about. A girl needs more than a guy who wants a body. A girl needs a guy who wants HER. Everything about her: her personality, her laugh, her smile, her jokes, her talents, her abilities, her brains, her sense of humor, her listening ear, her understanding, her knowledge, everything! Not just her body.
I don't know if I can deal with this anymore. I just need to be very single for a while longer. Stop hoping, stop wishing, etc. I was really hoping 2010 would bring better things for me in this department. I'm not so sure it will.