"She said, Whoever's calling can't be as cute as U...right then & there I knew I was through..."
Well, I didn't think I'd be using this thing too often again. But now I have a reason to. For my wide audience that reads this (all 2 of you), my other entries are backdated, so catch up motherfuckers!!! This is going to be a quick update on everything entry, methinks.
My brother got married on July 22nd at the Naval Academy in Annapolis. It was a beautiful ceromony, and an even better reception. My brother go up in the middle of the reception and thanked my mom (who is his stepmom) for helping raise him, and he thanked his sponsor family he had while he was at the academy. And he thanked our dad for showing him what it takes to be a good parent. He said thatour dad has never let him down, and he got really choked up. And for the first time ever (no exagerration), my dad actually started crying, something I thought I'd never see. It was a really great moment, definitely one of the best of my life. I've never seen my dad or my brother get emotional like that, so it was definitely a special moment. It was a really hectic few days down there, but overall, considering where everyone had to come from to get there (Japan, Florida, Jersey, New York), it all went really smoothly. His bride's family is really nice and very funny, so I look forward to getting to know all of them. Not to mention it looks like they can all dance, so maybe they can teach me a few moves. I'll have to write about this in detail later, since, of course, it wasn't ALL good. But even the bad didn't taint the experience.
So, after I got back, and had a couple of days to get some decent sleep, I went out with Wo on Tuesday. And, to top it off, he actually drove down here to see me, which doesn't happen too often with people. So after running out the house to drive to meet him (he said he wasn't familar with the area, so I didn't want him trying to find my house. I told him I'd meet him, but he left so early that he got here an hour sooner than I had planned on), and getting confused by his directions on where he was, I finally found him. And as he's getting out of the car, he pulls out these beautiful roses and gives them to me. I was completely speechless. I mean, no one has ever done something like that for me before. It made me feel so special...it took me a few minutes to really find anything to say to him. It was really, really touching. So we drove around for awhile just talking. Then we both went to get tested (not that I had planned on doing all that so soon. But we had been talking about having sex.....which is probably still a ways off, honestly....and I asked him if he's ever been tested. He said no, and I asked if he'd be offended if I asked him to. He said he wouldn't, so that was that. He didn't have to do it now, but at least it's out the way), and we both passed with a B+. So we went out to eat, and while we were talking, I learned a lot of little things about him, and came to the conclusion that he is a FREAK. In a good way, though. Like, he was telling me some of his fantasies and things he's done (on his own....definitely don't want to hear what he's done with other people in detail), and.....wow. He's realllllllllllly kinky. I think it just caught me off guard because he's actually pretty shy and stuff, and the last guy I was with was pretty vanilla when it came to stuff like that, so it's been awhile since I've had that kind of stuff in my life. But I get the feeling we'll be having some interesting times in the future, that's for sure.
So after we ate we went to the beach, and....wow. I did a lot of things I never thought I'd do (no drugs or anything like that, but it was still some stuff I didn't think I'd do), but the weird thing about it was.....I never really felt uncomfortable with anything. When I sat down on a bench, he just sat right on my lap and started kissing me, and I think with anyone else I would have been so uncomfortable, but with him.....I dunno. It just really didn't phase me. There were a bunch of people out there, too, and it didn't matter. Plus it was really hot, to boot. We acted out one of my fantasies, too, because later on when the beach was clear we went back with a few towels and laid down and just started going at it. It was an incredible night, to say the least. I can't believe I actually felt comfortable enough to do that with him, but it came pretty naturally. Not to mention what happened in the car beforehand. Things seem to be so spontaneous between us. It's great to have that. I just feel so comfortable with him. It's hard not to. He has the most amazing smile, and once you see it it's hard to not feel comfortable around him. And I think that he's really getting more comfortable around me. I don't want to jinx myself, but I finally think I've found someone normal, who really cares about me, who I can stare in the eye and not constantly see doubt there. It's not a feeling I'm used to, but it's one I definitely like. I think this could finally be the stable relationship I've bene looking for. We'll have to see how things go. But for the first time in a long time I'm actually not constantly worried about the other shoe dropping on me like it always did in the past. It's nice to finally be able to relax and feel comfortable around someone again, instead of always being on edge waiting for someone to dump you because you knew it was an inevitability. Plus, he's really into video games, too. Can't ask for much more than that.
Well, actually.....he's REALLY hot, too. Not that it's a necessity, but I can't say that it hurts, either.
My brother got married on July 22nd at the Naval Academy in Annapolis. It was a beautiful ceromony, and an even better reception. My brother go up in the middle of the reception and thanked my mom (who is his stepmom) for helping raise him, and he thanked his sponsor family he had while he was at the academy. And he thanked our dad for showing him what it takes to be a good parent. He said thatour dad has never let him down, and he got really choked up. And for the first time ever (no exagerration), my dad actually started crying, something I thought I'd never see. It was a really great moment, definitely one of the best of my life. I've never seen my dad or my brother get emotional like that, so it was definitely a special moment. It was a really hectic few days down there, but overall, considering where everyone had to come from to get there (Japan, Florida, Jersey, New York), it all went really smoothly. His bride's family is really nice and very funny, so I look forward to getting to know all of them. Not to mention it looks like they can all dance, so maybe they can teach me a few moves. I'll have to write about this in detail later, since, of course, it wasn't ALL good. But even the bad didn't taint the experience.
So, after I got back, and had a couple of days to get some decent sleep, I went out with Wo on Tuesday. And, to top it off, he actually drove down here to see me, which doesn't happen too often with people. So after running out the house to drive to meet him (he said he wasn't familar with the area, so I didn't want him trying to find my house. I told him I'd meet him, but he left so early that he got here an hour sooner than I had planned on), and getting confused by his directions on where he was, I finally found him. And as he's getting out of the car, he pulls out these beautiful roses and gives them to me. I was completely speechless. I mean, no one has ever done something like that for me before. It made me feel so special...it took me a few minutes to really find anything to say to him. It was really, really touching. So we drove around for awhile just talking. Then we both went to get tested (not that I had planned on doing all that so soon. But we had been talking about having sex.....which is probably still a ways off, honestly....and I asked him if he's ever been tested. He said no, and I asked if he'd be offended if I asked him to. He said he wouldn't, so that was that. He didn't have to do it now, but at least it's out the way), and we both passed with a B+. So we went out to eat, and while we were talking, I learned a lot of little things about him, and came to the conclusion that he is a FREAK. In a good way, though. Like, he was telling me some of his fantasies and things he's done (on his own....definitely don't want to hear what he's done with other people in detail), and.....wow. He's realllllllllllly kinky. I think it just caught me off guard because he's actually pretty shy and stuff, and the last guy I was with was pretty vanilla when it came to stuff like that, so it's been awhile since I've had that kind of stuff in my life. But I get the feeling we'll be having some interesting times in the future, that's for sure.
So after we ate we went to the beach, and....wow. I did a lot of things I never thought I'd do (no drugs or anything like that, but it was still some stuff I didn't think I'd do), but the weird thing about it was.....I never really felt uncomfortable with anything. When I sat down on a bench, he just sat right on my lap and started kissing me, and I think with anyone else I would have been so uncomfortable, but with him.....I dunno. It just really didn't phase me. There were a bunch of people out there, too, and it didn't matter. Plus it was really hot, to boot. We acted out one of my fantasies, too, because later on when the beach was clear we went back with a few towels and laid down and just started going at it. It was an incredible night, to say the least. I can't believe I actually felt comfortable enough to do that with him, but it came pretty naturally. Not to mention what happened in the car beforehand. Things seem to be so spontaneous between us. It's great to have that. I just feel so comfortable with him. It's hard not to. He has the most amazing smile, and once you see it it's hard to not feel comfortable around him. And I think that he's really getting more comfortable around me. I don't want to jinx myself, but I finally think I've found someone normal, who really cares about me, who I can stare in the eye and not constantly see doubt there. It's not a feeling I'm used to, but it's one I definitely like. I think this could finally be the stable relationship I've bene looking for. We'll have to see how things go. But for the first time in a long time I'm actually not constantly worried about the other shoe dropping on me like it always did in the past. It's nice to finally be able to relax and feel comfortable around someone again, instead of always being on edge waiting for someone to dump you because you knew it was an inevitability. Plus, he's really into video games, too. Can't ask for much more than that.
Well, actually.....he's REALLY hot, too. Not that it's a necessity, but I can't say that it hurts, either.