so i've gotten a ton of stuff done for this whole crazy wedding and i finally am pretty excited about it and relaxing a little. i was beginning to think that i wasn't going to be able to be excited with the stress of money, weirdo pastors, rude florists etc etc. but we've solved most of that...
turns out that using a "normal" church was just a totally bad idea and not meant for us. we thought it was good because it was a guarantee- lots of space, no worries about an outdoor ceremony.. but after a pastor that tried to stir up trouble and assume we were scarred from divorces and an ex. sailor catholic priest who wanted us to take NFP classes... it just wasn't working. so we turned to the place that was always in the back of our head and it was available by some miracle. here's a few pictures...
http://www.specialmomentsusa.com/photosbylocation/gallery.asp?id=21557&loc_type=c&type=c&lid=234&aid=6 http://www.specialmomentsusa.com/photosbylocation/gallery.asp?id=21556&loc_type=c&type=c&lid=234&aid=6 we tasted cakes yesterday and decided that the 3rd time is the charm for most things. we found a bakery that is reasonable and makes really yummy and interesting cake flavors. i fell in love with the bailey's irish cream filled chocolate cake.
i keep having nightmares that it's the day of the wedding and no one shows up or that i forgot to pay people so we have no photographer or dj. it's pretty ridiculous and absurd but i suppose i really can't help it. there are just so many things to remember to do/pay.... i had no idea.