Different Outlook
I found myself recently attracted to a girl here at AU in Dallas. She is in one of my classes so Ive gotten to talk to her quite a bit and everything else. What really surprises me is that she is not the type of girl that I would normally be attracted to. She is very different and I think I just realized why.
Most of the girls Ive dated in my last few years have all been dark haired girls. Most of them hispanics of course but I have never been attracted to blondes at all. The only blonde I can really recall being attracted to was my best friend but of course I loved her for more than just beauty. The 2nd thing that makes it interesting is that I have always dated these "pretty" girls. Most of them think that their purpose is just to sit there and look pretty. I cant even have much of a conversation with a lot of them because we would usually be on two different levels. But this girl... she is different.
I found out that she is hispanic but she has blonde hair. And I guess the thing that made me notice her was that she would often speak out during class asking questions or would comment with these great ideas. I guess that what amazed me. I sat there thinking about it and she really did have some great ideas and tips.
Ive been talking to her a little bit but I feel uneasy now. Ive never really found myself in a situation like this. How do I keep it professional and get closer at the same time. Dustin is coming from Denton to have dinner with me Thursday night. Im thinking about just asking her to come to dinner with me. If she doesnt, then fine, if she does, then great. We'll see what happens.
*sighs* I like smart girls apparently... why couldnt I have known this sooner...
Most of the girls Ive dated in my last few years have all been dark haired girls. Most of them hispanics of course but I have never been attracted to blondes at all. The only blonde I can really recall being attracted to was my best friend but of course I loved her for more than just beauty. The 2nd thing that makes it interesting is that I have always dated these "pretty" girls. Most of them think that their purpose is just to sit there and look pretty. I cant even have much of a conversation with a lot of them because we would usually be on two different levels. But this girl... she is different.
I found out that she is hispanic but she has blonde hair. And I guess the thing that made me notice her was that she would often speak out during class asking questions or would comment with these great ideas. I guess that what amazed me. I sat there thinking about it and she really did have some great ideas and tips.
Ive been talking to her a little bit but I feel uneasy now. Ive never really found myself in a situation like this. How do I keep it professional and get closer at the same time. Dustin is coming from Denton to have dinner with me Thursday night. Im thinking about just asking her to come to dinner with me. If she doesnt, then fine, if she does, then great. We'll see what happens.
*sighs* I like smart girls apparently... why couldnt I have known this sooner...