Waiting for somebody else to understand
I am very aggravated right now. My family keeps ranting about Curt and Molly's wedding being in Mexico and how inconsiderite that is because it is costing alot of money to go which is true but the thing is they knew this before and Mom is upset because they're not getting married in the Catholic church and all silly stuff. And it all makes sense. They are all valid points in their own right. But the things is NOTHING has changed in the plans they all knew this from the beggining and bought the travel package for the trip. So I'm saying STOP COMPLAINING, you knew all this and bought the tickets, your going, get over it. If you truely hated all of this why in the hell didnt you really talk to Curt about it or not bought the tickets. I guess my point is, if you decided to go then why are you now complaining about it? Uhg. And I'm annoyed by it because I'm the one the turn to to complain cause I listen and don't take sides but I'm over it. Earlier Mom was talking about it and I told her that they needed to either talk to Curt about it all or just stop complaining because you've already bought the tickets and she said your right but of course had to say some more stuff about it all. I listened for a lil bit more than said "Why dont you talk to Curt about when he gets here. Or when we're in cali why don't you go to lunch with Curt, Molly and Dad and talk." She said "oh well Cheryl will want to be on it." And I said "Who cares? It's not her deal. Tell her to stay out of it." Mom said I was right but I know she won't do it. I walked away after that I didn't want to have her bring something else up. I love my parents but they never talk to the right person about what they need to. And then if Cheryl hears about it then she gets all in it and they just let her then say "Oh Cheryl just gets involved in everything, wether you want her to or not." Which is very true! hehe But the rest of us don't let her get away with it unless it's we don't care that much. Sometimes I think my family is to close. Isn't that odd, it's our best trait but it also makes things tough. Hmm ok enough family ranting. Time to find happy upbeaty music and be over it all.