Jun 24, 2004 11:36
right now i feel like i'm going back onto an unnecessary topic.
first, i will full on admit that maybe i should have pressed the buttons that i did, but my buttons shouldn't have been pushed about that same area (just in context to me) in the first place. if one isn't defensive of their family, one doesn't have the support of their family.
second, i had every right to be in that room. yes, i did tell our landlord that i would be moving out but i didn't give her any dates and i told everyone in the house that i would be out by the end of june. in all legalitys, i could just 'stop by' and sit around and cook a meal, have a nap, or whatever up until july 1st. do not make assumptions, and most of (and i really hate this) do not lie. and to hit a few other things in there: i was considerate to everyone there, if there are any questions about that, give me examples; my things were going to be moved from the room... when i got them packed. laz understood that he came in early and everyone else understood that i wasn't going to be able to be out till the end of the month; my great news wasn't either of the two things you mentioned, but rather that i had gotten in touch with jay's roommate (monica) and i would definately be out by the end of the month;
ok now about my boyfriend: i know exactly what he thought of me before we got together he told me that flat out because he is an honest person. besides, none of what i said to 'him' was directed in any way at you and 'he' had already responded fine. your response in that respect was unnecessary.
now to touch on another part of this: a few people keep trying to tell me to just pack up monica's things and move the out to the living room. even before any of this happened, i wouldn't have touched her things. i've went in her room a total of 3 times; each time because i needed a feminine product. it's common courtesy to not mess with oher people's things. if i didn't want to move out and i just wanted to use that room as a place of storage, i had all rights to as long as i paid rent and bills. just like i had all rights to keep my things in the [locked] room till i was ready to move out as long as i paid rent and bills, which i did.
like i said before, i feel this is an unnecessary topic anymore. i can't wait to get the rest of my thing out and have nothing but a 'hi-bye' relationship with everyone left there.
to understand what i'm talking about, read the comment left by a bladeraider in my chrissicat21 livejournal.
btw bladeraider, all the rest of your comments concerning me were also unnecessary. like i said before, he replied to what i wrote; your coments were unnecessary and weren't taken to heart.
this is getting a bit high school now, isn't it? gee, i used the word unnecessary an unnecessary amount of tims.