On Being a Mother
I absolutely loved being pregnant (up to 7-8 months) and loved giving birth (especially after I forgot all the pain). Meeting a new person who shares love and adoration with you is truly remarkable. Birthing Zora, my first daughter, gave me great confidence after persevering a 32 hour labor without pain meds. Birthing Willow, my second daughter, gave me pride after she shot out of me after 4.5 hours - also without pain meds. And waiting for my spontaneous labor was well worth it. I am glad my girls got to choose their destined birth dates.
There are great lessons to be learned on either side of the spectrum. With both a short and long labor I felt very empowered after giving birth. Though my body feels mishapen, I am proud of the accomplishments that helped me achieve this new form. I wouldn't change it for a size 0 pants - ever. I have gained a new love and lost my temporary youthful form. But it was never meant to stay. And I was always meant to love.
There are great lessons to be learned on either side of the spectrum. With both a short and long labor I felt very empowered after giving birth. Though my body feels mishapen, I am proud of the accomplishments that helped me achieve this new form. I wouldn't change it for a size 0 pants - ever. I have gained a new love and lost my temporary youthful form. But it was never meant to stay. And I was always meant to love.