That's what I've explained to Hirschkuh... but I should re-post it here... as otherwise you won't get your love-declaration ;-). *HUGE HUGS*:
Of course, the majority of what it says fits. It's just a summing up of the meme-questions, after all. If I say I prefer working in groups it says I'm good at teamwork, if I say I love fun and meeting new people.... then it jumps to conclusions and states I won't stick around in hard times... *LOL*
You, Puddy, probably wrote you took the same way to work every day... and when a friend quits a date you stay at home. So you rarely stray from your vision. *LOL* Conflict, moreover is a natural part of relationships for you and you enjoy all forms of human interactions...
One thing about mine is certainly true (here's the promised love declaration): In face-to-face interaction I often enough find myself the court jester... and people "applaude". *LOL* Fine with that. But trouble is my telephone almost only rings when someone needs cheering up... which I readily do, because I love my friends.... but when I try talking to them, real conversation, you know... *LOL*... it turns out hardly anyone of them would listen or is interested in what I think and feel (let alone is ready to cheer me up in return... from those I get the answer: "I can't help you, you know how miserable I am myself.") So I've got a whole bunch of "fair-weather friends", who, themselves, are the blackest rainclouds ever. It's different if I start a friendship in the social web, though. (Apparently I don't jester as much in writing.... *LOL*...) Through LJ I've met two very dear friends both of whom have turned real-life friends and neither of them needs me as an entertainer or depends on constant cheering up (but I WOULD stick with them through bad times, as that's what friendship is about.)
You ARE a fabulous entertainer... so you don't depend on my jestering...! *LOL* Had a great time with you - and we should really call each other more often. I still can't lodge you as husband has renewed his work contract with university, doesn't know where he'll end up and we'll not move out of that one-room-and-kitchen-appartement for the price of three rooms (pay three get one) ;-) until June or so... then we'll look for a flat with room for a home office and a kid's room (no, that's not as urgent as it sounds... *LOL*) AND a guest-room. (That is, a flat with walls also inside, not only surrounding it... *LOL*)
*lol* Yeah, we should phone more often, though at the moment I am totally flooded with markings - again. Right now I am trying to make up my mind whether I should make this a sleepless night or just have the kids wait for a few more days.
I did get 'The Scientist' at one point. *LOL* I happen to prefer this one for myself as I get to be truly wonderful. *LOL*
I don't see you as 'the court jester' at all. You have a fab but appropriate sense of humour that I really appreciate. I'm interested in what you think or feel...*BIG HUGS* Very grateful and pleased to be your friend sweety.
*HUGE HUGS*... and so am I - very happy to be your friend, with all your fabulous and unique wit and wisdom, humour and sense of adventure, spontaneity, creativity, insight and deep understanding. With you I've had the most interesting conversations in my life... ever. Am looking forward to many future ones. *HUGGLES*
Welcome to the weekly (well, "annual" is hardly sufficient... *LOL*) dinner of the Mutual Appreciation Society! :-)
I didn't introduce myself as a court jester to you... and neither to Puddy (who is bound to contradict at some point there, though... *LOL*))
Of course, the majority of what it says fits. It's just a summing up of the meme-questions, after all. If I say I prefer working in groups it says I'm good at teamwork, if I say I love fun and meeting new people.... then it jumps to conclusions and states I won't stick around in hard times... *LOL*
You, Puddy, probably wrote you took the same way to work every day... and when a friend quits a date you stay at home. So you rarely stray from your vision. *LOL* Conflict, moreover is a natural part of relationships for you and you enjoy all forms of human interactions...
One thing about mine is certainly true (here's the promised love declaration): In face-to-face interaction I often enough find myself the court jester... and people "applaude". *LOL* Fine with that. But trouble is my telephone almost only rings when someone needs cheering up... which I readily do, because I love my friends.... but when I try talking to them, real conversation, you know... *LOL*... it turns out hardly anyone of them would listen or is interested in what I think and feel (let alone is ready to cheer me up in return... from those I get the answer: "I can't help you, you know how miserable I am myself.") So I've got a whole bunch of "fair-weather friends", who, themselves, are the blackest rainclouds ever.
It's different if I start a friendship in the social web, though. (Apparently I don't jester as much in writing.... *LOL*...) Through LJ I've met two very dear friends both of whom have turned real-life friends and neither of them needs me as an entertainer or depends on constant cheering up (but I WOULD stick with them through bad times, as that's what friendship is about.)
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I don't see you as 'the court jester' at all. You have a fab but appropriate sense of humour that I really appreciate. I'm interested in what you think or feel...*BIG HUGS* Very grateful and pleased to be your friend sweety.
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Welcome to the weekly (well, "annual" is hardly sufficient... *LOL*) dinner of the Mutual Appreciation Society! :-)
I didn't introduce myself as a court jester to you... and neither to Puddy (who is bound to contradict at some point there, though... *LOL*))
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