Pissed
I’m just so angry. I wanted to tell all of you what a great week that we had last week at Day Camp, but my ex-husband ruined that for me. In February, we agreed to a temporary reduction in child support because his income had went down. This was of course informal and just a verbal agreement. He was fairly regular about being on time, until this month. His wife told me that he would pay on 7/18. Well Friday came and went, and when he dropped Four off this week, I asked her where the check was and she told me to ask him. So I asked him and he was like ask the wife. I told him that I already did and she said to talk to him. He was like I’ll have to go back to the house to get it. Of course, I never hear from him. So I went over there to pick it up from her this morning and she was like I told him that he’d needed to talk to you about it. Of course with no more details. I just looked at her and was like so I’m not getting child support this month. That was Four’s birthday money. Which it was - I planned on that to spend on his party and a gift for him. I text messaged him and as usual, he’s not answering.
They are supposed to take Ten, Six and Four on vacation next week. I feel like if he can’t afford child support, they shouldn’t be able to go on vacation with him. I’m sorry, its just the way I feel. Its not fair to them to punish them because of hiim, but WTF!
Sorry that this is all mushed together and run on like, but damn. And I still don’t feel any better. I’m off to cry and try to plan a different party for Four now. And I have no idea what to do.