That's the hardest part is not being able to do anything about it.
Actually, Don and Naomi were never married. It was a really weird situation. They were together for nine years. They were only together in a relationship, at least as far as Naomi was concerned, for the first two years. After that, she came to live with me, but got pregnant and thought it was this awful guy named Jeffrey's, that she was seeing at the time. He kept harrassing her and wouldn't leave her alone about it, and so she went back down to Tucson to stay with Don, just to get away from Jeffrey. It turned out to be Don's baby. They never slept together, after Adia was born. After that, she stayed with Don, the last 7 years, just because Adia was his.
It does break my heart about Naomi. All I've ever wanted was for her to be happy. She's had such a hard life, because of the choices she's made, but so many were caused by her bipolar. I don't believe that Tony would be abusive to Adia. Actually, from what Naomi has said, he's been a much better father to her, because he's able to express feelings, and discipline her properly (not abusively). Don was never able to do that. The biggest thing I'm concerned about with Adia, is the emotional effect everything has had on her. She's only 6, but she's never known anything but chaos and upheaval. She's never had any kind of stability in her life.
Thank you for taking the time to explain it. What you had said about Naomi (while thinking she were married to Don) just made no sense, but I didn't want to pry. I want them both to be safe.
Actually, Don and Naomi were never married. It was a really weird situation. They were together for nine years. They were only together in a relationship, at least as far as Naomi was concerned, for the first two years. After that, she came to live with me, but got pregnant and thought it was this awful guy named Jeffrey's, that she was seeing at the time. He kept harrassing her and wouldn't leave her alone about it, and so she went back down to Tucson to stay with Don, just to get away from Jeffrey. It turned out to be Don's baby. They never slept together, after Adia was born. After that, she stayed with Don, the last 7 years, just because Adia was his.
It does break my heart about Naomi. All I've ever wanted was for her to be happy. She's had such a hard life, because of the choices she's made, but so many were caused by her bipolar. I don't believe that Tony would be abusive to Adia. Actually, from what Naomi has said, he's been a much better father to her, because he's able to express feelings, and discipline her properly (not abusively). Don was never able to do that. The biggest thing I'm concerned about with Adia, is the emotional effect everything has had on her. She's only 6, but she's never known anything but chaos and upheaval. She's never had any kind of stability in her life.
Thank you. I appreciate your prayers.
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