why oh why
Please tell me why, if you like someone, everyone else says you are obsessed or infatuated with that person. I mean...what is so bad about thinking a lot about someone you like? I would say that obsession or infatuation comes about when you know where the person lives without him/her knowing it, calling the person everyday or at least every weekend, and talking nonstop about the person. Ya know? When you start driving everyone else nuts because you are soooo into this object of your affection. I mean, where do you draw the line between just liking someone and being infatuated with that person? It really bugs and worries me to think I might be infatuated with someone, when I don't want to be. I mean what makes the way I feel any different from just liking him, ya know? It doesn't make any sense...