omg.. too much drama!!! aggh...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: hey diane
weRallSADbutTRUE: hi
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weRallSADbutTRUE: whats up
PUNKanarkyCHICK: u got a minute
weRallSADbutTRUE: sure..
weRallSADbutTRUE: why
weRallSADbutTRUE: whats wrong
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i just wanted to say that i have no like conflict with you at all and also with val
weRallSADbutTRUE: ok
PUNKanarkyCHICK: but that from certain personal circumstances i do feel uncomfterble being around you guys because of something that i dont feel comfterble people knowing
weRallSADbutTRUE: ok. then whats the problem?.. whatever you feel comfortable saying or writing then write if not then im not to push you to writing or saying to whatever you want to say
weRallSADbutTRUE: ?
weRallSADbutTRUE: do you get it?
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and i would like to apologize if it has caused things to be unflexible
weRallSADbutTRUE: ok.. then what is it?
weRallSADbutTRUE: if you dont mind me asking
PUNKanarkyCHICK: well its just that i want to know how you feel
weRallSADbutTRUE: feel about what>
PUNKanarkyCHICK: for wxample i felt violated that tim told you guys about very personal things about me
weRallSADbutTRUE: oh..
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and i was wondering if it was the same about you
PUNKanarkyCHICK: because he seems to have a very loose mouth
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and for the most part i tell him not to tell storys that arent his
PUNKanarkyCHICK: or that he has no permission about telling
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and i was wonderingif you felt the same
weRallSADbutTRUE: well im sorry, but it felt like he was just trying to get some advice.. he does want to help you out in every shape way and form.. its not like im going to say anything to anyone.. i mean i feel like its good for me to help him out.. he does love you....
weRallSADbutTRUE: well before i felt that way... then i realize that people were trying to help me
weRallSADbutTRUE: cause they care..
PUNKanarkyCHICK: u see
PUNKanarkyCHICK: with me it took me forever to talk to tim
PUNKanarkyCHICK: about it
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and he knew it
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and i made it clear only him and my bestfriend knew
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and that nobody else
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i mean
weRallSADbutTRUE: it MADE me feel uncomfortable for a while.. and then... i just sayed to myself people care.. and are willing to help
weRallSADbutTRUE: oh...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i seriously feel just so upset
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and it chokes me
weRallSADbutTRUE: then you should have sayed not to say anything to anyone.. cause it would make you feel uncomfrtable
PUNKanarkyCHICK: u see
weRallSADbutTRUE: you should have told him then
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i did
weRallSADbutTRUE: instead of getting upset..
weRallSADbutTRUE: and what did he say
PUNKanarkyCHICK: well then later on after a long time
PUNKanarkyCHICK: he waslike
PUNKanarkyCHICK: ohh
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i dont remember
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i mean
weRallSADbutTRUE: oh.. i see
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and for hte most part i don think he understands
PUNKanarkyCHICK: its like i dont think he know waht i am talking about
PUNKanarkyCHICK: abouthte subject
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i think he has like a diff defenition
PUNKanarkyCHICK: tell me
PUNKanarkyCHICK: what would you feel if i told you
PUNKanarkyCHICK: just get over it
PUNKanarkyCHICK: lets say in a frustuated tone
weRallSADbutTRUE: i would feel surprised.. then think about it.. and then talk to you
PUNKanarkyCHICK: waht woudl you say
weRallSADbutTRUE: i mean trying to calm you down
weRallSADbutTRUE: i would say " whats wrong honey.." and "tell me about it"
PUNKanarkyCHICK: waht aboutif i were like
PUNKanarkyCHICK: u knw just get over it
weRallSADbutTRUE: ?
weRallSADbutTRUE: wat do you mean
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i mean its not hard
PUNKanarkyCHICK: ur making a big deal of it
weRallSADbutTRUE: well then.. hmm...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: put it in the past and forget about it
weRallSADbutTRUE: i would sorta say that.. but its very difficult in saying that.. i mean it does take time...
weRallSADbutTRUE: but you have to see that its back then.. and this is now
weRallSADbutTRUE: don't really bottle up everything just because a certain situation rises.. its going to bring you down..
weRallSADbutTRUE: and you will stay down until someone finially slaps you and says "snap out of it"
weRallSADbutTRUE: you know
PUNKanarkyCHICK: u dont mind it when people tell personal things about you without your consent
weRallSADbutTRUE: now i don't mind.. but before it took me a while.. to figure out that this person is helping me..
weRallSADbutTRUE: cause now i don't care
PUNKanarkyCHICK: but if you were just comming out
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i mean
PUNKanarkyCHICK: common
weRallSADbutTRUE: hmm.. good question..
PUNKanarkyCHICK: lets say that you ha actually blocked that accidently
PUNKanarkyCHICK: for like 6-7 years
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and like one day you are like
PUNKanarkyCHICK: oh shit
weRallSADbutTRUE: i mean i would call the person first to get they're respind if i can say that situation
weRallSADbutTRUE: ?
PUNKanarkyCHICK: thats waht i tell tim
PUNKanarkyCHICK: its not his story to tell since it didnt happen to him
PUNKanarkyCHICK: if someone trustes you with something... u have to respect the fact that you were trusted with the gift of something so personal
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and that it is not something that you go around saying
weRallSADbutTRUE: well that true.. but you gotta know that he loves.. you and that he wanted in formation or advise to help you out, basically to calm you down.. and make you feel like your not the only person out here that has that problem
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i mean if the person wanted all to know then she would tell them
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i dont know how that would have been an issue
PUNKanarkyCHICK: since i told him that way after
PUNKanarkyCHICK: calm me down from what
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i was not having problems about it
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i just had it to myself
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and it wasnt an issue
PUNKanarkyCHICK: because nobody knew
weRallSADbutTRUE: whatever situation.. i mean i would entrust them.. but if they have to say it to someone else, by alls means they would say it to them..
PUNKanarkyCHICK: umm i didnt catch what you said
weRallSADbutTRUE: hmm.. it is an issue now since you told him
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i know
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and in a way i regret it
weRallSADbutTRUE: cause it affected him a lot and he didn't know what to do, so then he had to ask someone who knew that certain situation . ...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: it didnt affect him at all
PUNKanarkyCHICK: when i told him we were doing good
weRallSADbutTRUE: yea...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i told him that to explain how i acted before and that i no longer felt that way because i knew he loved me
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i mean there was no issue
weRallSADbutTRUE: ok// wait im confused now
weRallSADbutTRUE: ^-^
PUNKanarkyCHICK: ok
PUNKanarkyCHICK: when i told him about it
PUNKanarkyCHICK: it was to explain the reasons of how i acted before
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and i stoped acting that way
PUNKanarkyCHICK: because i felt comfterble with him
PUNKanarkyCHICK: so what evehappened to me
PUNKanarkyCHICK: was no issue
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and didnt affect him
weRallSADbutTRUE: what is the problem right now.. ?>????? cause i don't get it..
PUNKanarkyCHICK: right now
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i am upset because tim has no respect to privacy
weRallSADbutTRUE: ok ... then what would you like tim to do then.. i mean.. he is trying to help you ,... i would know that he didn't mean to say anything to anyone.. right.. i mean he would say something to a most trusted friend.. cause he was trying to get help and that he wanted to make sure that this thingy won't happen again... i don't understand what he did... but he wants to know whats going on.. to try and better you.. he doesn't want to jeoperdized.. anything between you two... and saying that he doesn't have respect for your privacy is somewhat right and somewhat wrong... in a way.. then what can tim do to to fix this thing?
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i dont know
PUNKanarkyCHICK: its a feeling of violated
weRallSADbutTRUE: well then.. why don't you call him
weRallSADbutTRUE: just call him.. and say that..
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i already told him that
weRallSADbutTRUE: really?
PUNKanarkyCHICK: yes
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i think like in our convo i said it like at least 2 times
weRallSADbutTRUE: what is the solution to this.. are you going to forgive him and move on,... or are you going to let this drive HIM crazy.. and trying to figure out what to make you happier again
weRallSADbutTRUE: i mean he called me earlier
weRallSADbutTRUE: about the whole is it ok?.. thing.. you know..
weRallSADbutTRUE: and i gave him permission
weRallSADbutTRUE: cause he was trying to help you out
weRallSADbutTRUE: you know>????
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i dont know waht to do
weRallSADbutTRUE: hmm...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i didnt appreciate the fact that he told me without your permission
PUNKanarkyCHICK: because i wouldnt want him doing that to me again
weRallSADbutTRUE: i did tell him that i was completely open to it
PUNKanarkyCHICK: least with such a delicate topic
weRallSADbutTRUE: oh ok.. then say that to him then....
PUNKanarkyCHICK: on tuesday we almost got in an argument because he did it
weRallSADbutTRUE: i mean he would try and understand
weRallSADbutTRUE: did what?
PUNKanarkyCHICK: he was starting to tell me about you
weRallSADbutTRUE: oh.. i see...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and it pissed me off
weRallSADbutTRUE: then say that...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i did... and i told him that its not something to be talked about leisurely
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and leastly at a restaurant
weRallSADbutTRUE: do you think that he was using me to try and put you down...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: he was using it as an argumentative form
PUNKanarkyCHICK: which not even was in the topic
weRallSADbutTRUE: oh..
weRallSADbutTRUE: i see...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: right now to me it matters more that your privacy is secure
weRallSADbutTRUE: i see
PUNKanarkyCHICK: because thats what i would like to be treated
weRallSADbutTRUE: oh.. well then say that to him
PUNKanarkyCHICK: so im hopping that you are feeling ok
weRallSADbutTRUE: im okie...
weRallSADbutTRUE: thank you for caring
weRallSADbutTRUE: ^-^
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and i would like to promise you that if teh circumstance eve comes when ur personal life comes up .. that i will stop any coversation
weRallSADbutTRUE: ok...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: unless u tell me
weRallSADbutTRUE: ok
weRallSADbutTRUE: then yes..
PUNKanarkyCHICK: ok that was all
PUNKanarkyCHICK: thanks for that very long minute
weRallSADbutTRUE: okie..
weRallSADbutTRUE: ok .. anytime..
weRallSADbutTRUE: hi
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weRallSADbutTRUE: whats up
PUNKanarkyCHICK: u got a minute
weRallSADbutTRUE: sure..
weRallSADbutTRUE: why
weRallSADbutTRUE: whats wrong
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i just wanted to say that i have no like conflict with you at all and also with val
weRallSADbutTRUE: ok
PUNKanarkyCHICK: but that from certain personal circumstances i do feel uncomfterble being around you guys because of something that i dont feel comfterble people knowing
weRallSADbutTRUE: ok. then whats the problem?.. whatever you feel comfortable saying or writing then write if not then im not to push you to writing or saying to whatever you want to say
weRallSADbutTRUE: ?
weRallSADbutTRUE: do you get it?
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and i would like to apologize if it has caused things to be unflexible
weRallSADbutTRUE: ok.. then what is it?
weRallSADbutTRUE: if you dont mind me asking
PUNKanarkyCHICK: well its just that i want to know how you feel
weRallSADbutTRUE: feel about what>
PUNKanarkyCHICK: for wxample i felt violated that tim told you guys about very personal things about me
weRallSADbutTRUE: oh..
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and i was wondering if it was the same about you
PUNKanarkyCHICK: because he seems to have a very loose mouth
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and for the most part i tell him not to tell storys that arent his
PUNKanarkyCHICK: or that he has no permission about telling
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and i was wonderingif you felt the same
weRallSADbutTRUE: well im sorry, but it felt like he was just trying to get some advice.. he does want to help you out in every shape way and form.. its not like im going to say anything to anyone.. i mean i feel like its good for me to help him out.. he does love you....
weRallSADbutTRUE: well before i felt that way... then i realize that people were trying to help me
weRallSADbutTRUE: cause they care..
PUNKanarkyCHICK: u see
PUNKanarkyCHICK: with me it took me forever to talk to tim
PUNKanarkyCHICK: about it
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and he knew it
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and i made it clear only him and my bestfriend knew
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and that nobody else
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i mean
weRallSADbutTRUE: it MADE me feel uncomfortable for a while.. and then... i just sayed to myself people care.. and are willing to help
weRallSADbutTRUE: oh...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i seriously feel just so upset
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and it chokes me
weRallSADbutTRUE: then you should have sayed not to say anything to anyone.. cause it would make you feel uncomfrtable
PUNKanarkyCHICK: u see
weRallSADbutTRUE: you should have told him then
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i did
weRallSADbutTRUE: instead of getting upset..
weRallSADbutTRUE: and what did he say
PUNKanarkyCHICK: well then later on after a long time
PUNKanarkyCHICK: he waslike
PUNKanarkyCHICK: ohh
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i dont remember
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i mean
weRallSADbutTRUE: oh.. i see
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and for hte most part i don think he understands
PUNKanarkyCHICK: its like i dont think he know waht i am talking about
PUNKanarkyCHICK: abouthte subject
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i think he has like a diff defenition
PUNKanarkyCHICK: tell me
PUNKanarkyCHICK: what would you feel if i told you
PUNKanarkyCHICK: just get over it
PUNKanarkyCHICK: lets say in a frustuated tone
weRallSADbutTRUE: i would feel surprised.. then think about it.. and then talk to you
PUNKanarkyCHICK: waht woudl you say
weRallSADbutTRUE: i mean trying to calm you down
weRallSADbutTRUE: i would say " whats wrong honey.." and "tell me about it"
PUNKanarkyCHICK: waht aboutif i were like
PUNKanarkyCHICK: u knw just get over it
weRallSADbutTRUE: ?
weRallSADbutTRUE: wat do you mean
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i mean its not hard
PUNKanarkyCHICK: ur making a big deal of it
weRallSADbutTRUE: well then.. hmm...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: put it in the past and forget about it
weRallSADbutTRUE: i would sorta say that.. but its very difficult in saying that.. i mean it does take time...
weRallSADbutTRUE: but you have to see that its back then.. and this is now
weRallSADbutTRUE: don't really bottle up everything just because a certain situation rises.. its going to bring you down..
weRallSADbutTRUE: and you will stay down until someone finially slaps you and says "snap out of it"
weRallSADbutTRUE: you know
PUNKanarkyCHICK: u dont mind it when people tell personal things about you without your consent
weRallSADbutTRUE: now i don't mind.. but before it took me a while.. to figure out that this person is helping me..
weRallSADbutTRUE: cause now i don't care
PUNKanarkyCHICK: but if you were just comming out
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i mean
PUNKanarkyCHICK: common
weRallSADbutTRUE: hmm.. good question..
PUNKanarkyCHICK: lets say that you ha actually blocked that accidently
PUNKanarkyCHICK: for like 6-7 years
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and like one day you are like
PUNKanarkyCHICK: oh shit
weRallSADbutTRUE: i mean i would call the person first to get they're respind if i can say that situation
weRallSADbutTRUE: ?
PUNKanarkyCHICK: thats waht i tell tim
PUNKanarkyCHICK: its not his story to tell since it didnt happen to him
PUNKanarkyCHICK: if someone trustes you with something... u have to respect the fact that you were trusted with the gift of something so personal
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and that it is not something that you go around saying
weRallSADbutTRUE: well that true.. but you gotta know that he loves.. you and that he wanted in formation or advise to help you out, basically to calm you down.. and make you feel like your not the only person out here that has that problem
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i mean if the person wanted all to know then she would tell them
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i dont know how that would have been an issue
PUNKanarkyCHICK: since i told him that way after
PUNKanarkyCHICK: calm me down from what
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i was not having problems about it
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i just had it to myself
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and it wasnt an issue
PUNKanarkyCHICK: because nobody knew
weRallSADbutTRUE: whatever situation.. i mean i would entrust them.. but if they have to say it to someone else, by alls means they would say it to them..
PUNKanarkyCHICK: umm i didnt catch what you said
weRallSADbutTRUE: hmm.. it is an issue now since you told him
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i know
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and in a way i regret it
weRallSADbutTRUE: cause it affected him a lot and he didn't know what to do, so then he had to ask someone who knew that certain situation . ...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: it didnt affect him at all
PUNKanarkyCHICK: when i told him we were doing good
weRallSADbutTRUE: yea...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i told him that to explain how i acted before and that i no longer felt that way because i knew he loved me
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i mean there was no issue
weRallSADbutTRUE: ok// wait im confused now
weRallSADbutTRUE: ^-^
PUNKanarkyCHICK: ok
PUNKanarkyCHICK: when i told him about it
PUNKanarkyCHICK: it was to explain the reasons of how i acted before
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and i stoped acting that way
PUNKanarkyCHICK: because i felt comfterble with him
PUNKanarkyCHICK: so what evehappened to me
PUNKanarkyCHICK: was no issue
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and didnt affect him
weRallSADbutTRUE: what is the problem right now.. ?>????? cause i don't get it..
PUNKanarkyCHICK: right now
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i am upset because tim has no respect to privacy
weRallSADbutTRUE: ok ... then what would you like tim to do then.. i mean.. he is trying to help you ,... i would know that he didn't mean to say anything to anyone.. right.. i mean he would say something to a most trusted friend.. cause he was trying to get help and that he wanted to make sure that this thingy won't happen again... i don't understand what he did... but he wants to know whats going on.. to try and better you.. he doesn't want to jeoperdized.. anything between you two... and saying that he doesn't have respect for your privacy is somewhat right and somewhat wrong... in a way.. then what can tim do to to fix this thing?
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i dont know
PUNKanarkyCHICK: its a feeling of violated
weRallSADbutTRUE: well then.. why don't you call him
weRallSADbutTRUE: just call him.. and say that..
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i already told him that
weRallSADbutTRUE: really?
PUNKanarkyCHICK: yes
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i think like in our convo i said it like at least 2 times
weRallSADbutTRUE: what is the solution to this.. are you going to forgive him and move on,... or are you going to let this drive HIM crazy.. and trying to figure out what to make you happier again
weRallSADbutTRUE: i mean he called me earlier
weRallSADbutTRUE: about the whole is it ok?.. thing.. you know..
weRallSADbutTRUE: and i gave him permission
weRallSADbutTRUE: cause he was trying to help you out
weRallSADbutTRUE: you know>????
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i dont know waht to do
weRallSADbutTRUE: hmm...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i didnt appreciate the fact that he told me without your permission
PUNKanarkyCHICK: because i wouldnt want him doing that to me again
weRallSADbutTRUE: i did tell him that i was completely open to it
PUNKanarkyCHICK: least with such a delicate topic
weRallSADbutTRUE: oh ok.. then say that to him then....
PUNKanarkyCHICK: on tuesday we almost got in an argument because he did it
weRallSADbutTRUE: i mean he would try and understand
weRallSADbutTRUE: did what?
PUNKanarkyCHICK: he was starting to tell me about you
weRallSADbutTRUE: oh.. i see...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and it pissed me off
weRallSADbutTRUE: then say that...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: i did... and i told him that its not something to be talked about leisurely
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and leastly at a restaurant
weRallSADbutTRUE: do you think that he was using me to try and put you down...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: he was using it as an argumentative form
PUNKanarkyCHICK: which not even was in the topic
weRallSADbutTRUE: oh..
weRallSADbutTRUE: i see...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: right now to me it matters more that your privacy is secure
weRallSADbutTRUE: i see
PUNKanarkyCHICK: because thats what i would like to be treated
weRallSADbutTRUE: oh.. well then say that to him
PUNKanarkyCHICK: so im hopping that you are feeling ok
weRallSADbutTRUE: im okie...
weRallSADbutTRUE: thank you for caring
weRallSADbutTRUE: ^-^
PUNKanarkyCHICK: and i would like to promise you that if teh circumstance eve comes when ur personal life comes up .. that i will stop any coversation
weRallSADbutTRUE: ok...
PUNKanarkyCHICK: unless u tell me
weRallSADbutTRUE: ok
weRallSADbutTRUE: then yes..
PUNKanarkyCHICK: ok that was all
PUNKanarkyCHICK: thanks for that very long minute
weRallSADbutTRUE: okie..
weRallSADbutTRUE: ok .. anytime..