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[psychfringe]

It just hit me.
I took a half hour to bitch.
but the opening paragraph of my last post is what makes a person realize that her life isn't as bad as things could be.
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Whenever i feel like Im sinking?
thats the paragrpah i need to read.
god.

Comments

[psychfringe]

good point, d.
thankyou for this
-skwish

[sammantha]

I agree with what you said..me with my bitching about the ex.
But cin..you are going through a terrible time too re Carm. What your friend's sister is going through does not diminish what your problems are. There is ALWAYS someone worse off than us and better off than us. Everyone knows you have a heart of gold and sympathize and empathize with others going through rough times..but you have every right to feel the way you do about your own situation.
You are such a terrific person!

[psychfringe]

true enough, there's always someone going thru something worse.
but i sometimes think if i can keep things in prespective, it won't seem as bad.

today shan and i went shopping and it took a bit to unwind. I almost had to callmar to come get us because i was feeling really really anxious and didnt want to get *crazy* when i was only with shan
i talked myself thru the crazy-part..lol
then i said to shan: shan i need some stories to get me to take my mind off everything.
she immediately told me a ton of school -gossip that she wouldn't normally share..lol
it was good.
we bought things.
we ate things.
we laughed.

another day..
:)
thanks laurie, ~hug

[sammantha]

you sound like me. I have had anxiety attacks in the past when I would get like the way you described.
Stuff happened this morning re the ex stuff..an angry email from Justin and it upset me and I just wanted Rick to talk to me, tke my mind off it..the way I wanted I could not cause hehehe the dot is here..however we went to work out and that helped a lot.

[sammantha]

whoops, gotta clarify that.
re me and my bitching about my ex - I agree about when one is harping about their own problems and then you read about other things such as your friend's sister, it makes one feel silly about their own problems. (like my ex woes). But like I siad..it doesn't diminish what you are going through.

[acey]

I agree too. It's fine to think of others who have worse problems, but that should not mean that yours immediately become meaningless, or at least slide 'way down the scale. The problems closest to us are the ones we think about the most because we feel responsible for helping to find a solution, and sometimes it's damn hard.

I am glad you were able to have a laugh with Shan. I totally get the 'anxious' thing too - truly I do. You are a strong woman, Cin. Know that, and keep on keeping on. You are doing a very hard job wonderfully well, you know.

Hugs

[trishaerin]

I ditto with what Ang said! Keep your chin up! Sending you big hugs from MI!!