This was the original story:
http://pagingdrgupta.blogs.cnn.com/2010/12/16/sex-ed-in-the-age-of-snooki/#comment-119630 My comment seemed general enough to cross-post:
(Responding to But when it comes to dating, they want someone respectable.)
Respect should be based on intelligence, work ethic, willpower, kindness, talent, etc. If a woman bases her self-respect on acting demure, she's lost my respect.