Jul 13, 2006 20:15
To my friend's jack-ass brother,
I'm so terribly sorry that someone elses sexual or gender identity makes things complicated for you. That guy who had been acting 'flameing gay' as you put it, might actually be straight. The way he walks, talks, that tone in his voice, hell his fucking accent all have exactly shit to do with his sexual orientation. So until he comes over and says with a smile and a handshake that yes, he's gay, don't assume, because you don't know. I know what it feels like to be miss-labled, when my hair is short I get called a lesbian every other day. I don't care how stereotypically gay someone acts, You. Don't. Know.
So shut the hell up.
And when I make this point, don't go on to say you don't think so. Because apparantly presentation is all you care about. You'll say you understand there's gay, straight and bi.. but to make it easier on you, your own gods damned words btw, you'll just say it's just gay or straight. What a nice little black-and-white line you've drawn for you and your overworked sense of reality.
You're lucky I like your brother and was more expecting him to tell you to shut the fuck up, seeing as how he knows I'm asexual, something that didn't even come into your 'I understand, but..' speil. But he didn't, so I'm probably going to have to poke, prod and nippletwist his sorry ass into some kind of semi-satisfactory appology for not smacking you upside your dense head.
Gender identity and sexual identity are NOT THE SAME THING! Don't look at me with that shit-eating grin of a smirk and shake your head. They're not related fucktard.
Sexuality and gender are both a lot more complicated than boy, girl and tranny, which I'm guessing you only mean MtF. I bet your fucking head would explode if you ever thought that some female bodied indaviduals had more 'man' in their little finger than you could muster with all your strength and will.
The only thing I'm thankful for is that you realized you'd fucked up when I didn't back down and stared hard. I worked in a place with nothing but males in a small buisness for almost five years. I can stare you down harder than you know. I would love to have given you a good lesson on the idiocy of bashing anything aroudn people you really don't know all that well. But.. I'll just have to save it for next time, Ass.