...About time
Stupid myspace was down a few days but now is up so I can start my posts with a few good ones from my blog there...
What-the-fuck-ever
Current mood: aggravated
Something happened the other night that set me off for the first time in what feels like... foreever, so for the first time since my ex and I were dating I'm going to blog.
Yesterday I was complimented and insulted in the space of two sentences.
"I'm a very visual person and as soon as I saw your picture I thought you were hot."
WOW! Thanks! Seriously I love being complimented as much as the next guy. Maybe even more given my low self esteem... being told I'm hot makes me feel really good! Ok next sentence...
"I see by your profile your not really into guys."
What does that mean "not really into guys"? Excuse me?!? Why am i not really into guys? Because I identify as bi? Yes I like women, hells I love boobs! I admit that. But to tell me I'm not really into guys is frankly insulting and offensive.
I guess what bothers me is what I've learned since coming out...
Bi Is...
... Too straight for the gays
... Too queer for the straights
... Too threatening to everyones either/ or world.
Well guess what, I'm bi, I'm not confused, or in denile or "in transition" I am very aware of myself and what I am attracted too. I will love any man. Or woman, as I choose. And anyone who has a problem with that can, in the words of Peter griffin "Kiss the fattest part of my ass!"
I am very fortunate to have surrounded myself in a small very tight web of freinds who love and accept me for who I am. Hells when I came out to Kim her response was "It's about time sweety, I've known for years but you needed to find it on your own." And Stacy's only down side was "wish you'd given me more warning, Jesse and Paul are reading over my shoulder and are havin a good laugh."
I guess what bothers me is that it's hard enough getting hatred and agression from the straight community.I think the gay communitee should be better *sigh* maybe I'm giving them to much credit, after all in the end Gays and Lesbians are just people and people basicly fuckin suck.
I'm sorry for anyone made uncomfy bi this but how bisexuals are treated is one of the few subjects I take very seriously. We are here and were not going away and quiet frankly I think the gay communitee would be better to embrace us, after all were already a minority, we would be best served by NOT deviding ourselves into smaller and smaller groups, thats how the majority marginalizes a group by making it so small as too not matter.
And anyone who is on my freinds list and dosn't know I'm bi... well you really wernt paying attention were you... anyway I feel better so later kids!
Which lead to this...
We Don't exist
Current mood: pissed off
Here's the proof from my my message box
buddah26
Date: Feb 9, 2006 7:50 PM Flag spam/abuse. [ ? ]
Subject: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: You say fucking suck like itss a bad
Body: Saw your little note regarding my comment. What a loser you are! hidding behind your FEMALE friends to avoid facing reality. Get it down big boy: bisexuality does not exist, you are just trying to save face by saying you like girlie guys or big tits, when you know deep down you are a big homo. And a fucking sci-fi freak as well.
You know most people would take this as proof I was straight, which I'm not. I am bi and we do exist you narrow minded fucker.
I could let stacy post this herself and if she wants to comment feel free but she summed it up loser "Faggots like him are why straights hate gays!"
Oh and I am a scifi geek... maybe if you pulled your face out of your own ass once and a while you'd learn there is more to life then cock.
That guy really pissed me off...
What-the-fuck-ever
Current mood: aggravated
Something happened the other night that set me off for the first time in what feels like... foreever, so for the first time since my ex and I were dating I'm going to blog.
Yesterday I was complimented and insulted in the space of two sentences.
"I'm a very visual person and as soon as I saw your picture I thought you were hot."
WOW! Thanks! Seriously I love being complimented as much as the next guy. Maybe even more given my low self esteem... being told I'm hot makes me feel really good! Ok next sentence...
"I see by your profile your not really into guys."
What does that mean "not really into guys"? Excuse me?!? Why am i not really into guys? Because I identify as bi? Yes I like women, hells I love boobs! I admit that. But to tell me I'm not really into guys is frankly insulting and offensive.
I guess what bothers me is what I've learned since coming out...
Bi Is...
... Too straight for the gays
... Too queer for the straights
... Too threatening to everyones either/ or world.
Well guess what, I'm bi, I'm not confused, or in denile or "in transition" I am very aware of myself and what I am attracted too. I will love any man. Or woman, as I choose. And anyone who has a problem with that can, in the words of Peter griffin "Kiss the fattest part of my ass!"
I am very fortunate to have surrounded myself in a small very tight web of freinds who love and accept me for who I am. Hells when I came out to Kim her response was "It's about time sweety, I've known for years but you needed to find it on your own." And Stacy's only down side was "wish you'd given me more warning, Jesse and Paul are reading over my shoulder and are havin a good laugh."
I guess what bothers me is that it's hard enough getting hatred and agression from the straight community.I think the gay communitee should be better *sigh* maybe I'm giving them to much credit, after all in the end Gays and Lesbians are just people and people basicly fuckin suck.
I'm sorry for anyone made uncomfy bi this but how bisexuals are treated is one of the few subjects I take very seriously. We are here and were not going away and quiet frankly I think the gay communitee would be better to embrace us, after all were already a minority, we would be best served by NOT deviding ourselves into smaller and smaller groups, thats how the majority marginalizes a group by making it so small as too not matter.
And anyone who is on my freinds list and dosn't know I'm bi... well you really wernt paying attention were you... anyway I feel better so later kids!
Which lead to this...
We Don't exist
Current mood: pissed off
Here's the proof from my my message box
buddah26
Date: Feb 9, 2006 7:50 PM Flag spam/abuse. [ ? ]
Subject: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: You say fucking suck like itss a bad
Body: Saw your little note regarding my comment. What a loser you are! hidding behind your FEMALE friends to avoid facing reality. Get it down big boy: bisexuality does not exist, you are just trying to save face by saying you like girlie guys or big tits, when you know deep down you are a big homo. And a fucking sci-fi freak as well.
You know most people would take this as proof I was straight, which I'm not. I am bi and we do exist you narrow minded fucker.
I could let stacy post this herself and if she wants to comment feel free but she summed it up loser "Faggots like him are why straights hate gays!"
Oh and I am a scifi geek... maybe if you pulled your face out of your own ass once and a while you'd learn there is more to life then cock.
That guy really pissed me off...