My gift to you..
is my submission. It's the total package. When you give your submission to someone, you give them your faith, your trust, your loyalty, and above all your respect. Submission is the most precious gift to bestow on someone. They have to be worthy, first of all. And when I speak of being worthy, I don't mean they have to be wealthy or a genius or anything like that. They have to be Dominant. They have to understand what it means to be a man. What it means to carry ones self as a man in the world. They have to understand what it means to have a woman and to keep her. And no, I don't mean buy her gifts and just place her up on a pedestal or treat her as if she'll break. Women were made to be broken. And I don't mean abuse. See this is where the ones who look into the glass house and see what's going on misinterpret. Submission is not about abusing. It's not about being beaten to keep a woman in line. It's not about yelling and screaming and general mistreatment. It's about knowing and respecting the limits the submissive puts upon the relationship. What? You're sitting there thinking, "the submissive puts up the limits? But I thought?" Yes. Yes most D/s couples know what the outside world thinks. And that's why when asked to explain, we never hesitate to explain!
People on the outside looking in truly do not understand that in a D/s relationship, the submissive calls the shots. She imposes the limits, she creates the safe words, she lays down what is accepted and what isn't. And I know people are sitting out there going, "huh???", but it's the truth! Go ask any Dominant. Any true one. He won't do anything to his submissive she did not ask him to do. He isn't just going to go off on her and begin to beat her. Not unless she openly asked him to do so. That is why the Dominant, when he finds a truly wonderful submissive he strives to keep her! A woman who understands, who isn't afraid to tell him what she needs and what she wants from him. Those are rare! I don't care what it appears like out there with all these "strong" women, the ones who say they're strong and independent. Okay fine. Perhaps they are. But in the same turn, submissive women are just as strong and just as independent. They gain their freedom through their submission. Freedom to be themselves. Freedom to speak their minds. Freedom to express themselves. There are no more beautiful freedoms than those gained through submission!
I wrote this for you, Christian. You, my Dominant, who has allowed me to become more free every single day. You've allowed me to grow and to relish all the wonderful feelings I thought I'd forgotten! It's nice to know being with you once more has brought it all back to the surface. I relish in it now as I relished in it then. I won't ever forget who I am or who I belong to!
People on the outside looking in truly do not understand that in a D/s relationship, the submissive calls the shots. She imposes the limits, she creates the safe words, she lays down what is accepted and what isn't. And I know people are sitting out there going, "huh???", but it's the truth! Go ask any Dominant. Any true one. He won't do anything to his submissive she did not ask him to do. He isn't just going to go off on her and begin to beat her. Not unless she openly asked him to do so. That is why the Dominant, when he finds a truly wonderful submissive he strives to keep her! A woman who understands, who isn't afraid to tell him what she needs and what she wants from him. Those are rare! I don't care what it appears like out there with all these "strong" women, the ones who say they're strong and independent. Okay fine. Perhaps they are. But in the same turn, submissive women are just as strong and just as independent. They gain their freedom through their submission. Freedom to be themselves. Freedom to speak their minds. Freedom to express themselves. There are no more beautiful freedoms than those gained through submission!
I wrote this for you, Christian. You, my Dominant, who has allowed me to become more free every single day. You've allowed me to grow and to relish all the wonderful feelings I thought I'd forgotten! It's nice to know being with you once more has brought it all back to the surface. I relish in it now as I relished in it then. I won't ever forget who I am or who I belong to!