Jan 17, 2005 10:34
so i am curious.
iv heard it said that you you cant go looking for love, that it has to find you.
but its almost always women who say this.
i think it is emblematic of the learned pasivity of women in our society. pasivity in dating that is.
so am i wrong? does this apply to guys?
i doubt it highly, unless as a man you are constantly on the look out sending out your tendrils its hard to meet ppl worth dating that are also interested.
maybe its just me tho.
in other news- for no real reason i had a great energetic weekend. i had nothing at all to do on sat night so i reconstructed my bed and cleaned. if im not goint to be shaking my booty i can at least be productive no?
i want to start trying new things. things that are different and scary. i want a partner to do it with but maybe its best to jump into things alone and see where they take me. life is only lived once.
anyone want to go to the ottobar tonite? new wave/pop punk upstairs.
i dont know why i ask things like that on here. oh well. it make me feel beter that i pseudo invited ppl i guess.
and girls who are engaged should be less pretty and or cool.