I have held my tongue long enough. I have been staying out of this because quite frankly I love both Indy and Kat. I am severely disappointed in your actions, Indy. The girl I knew was spicy yes, but loving and caring. I don't see that anymore and it makes me sad. Nothing hurts more then when you lose a partner to another person, I know that all to readily now-a-days. That, however does not give you the right to use your son as a pawn in a vile chess game. You told me upon one of my visits when we got reacquainted, "You took Justin for granted." You also told me the things you needed and longed for and how you and Justin did not mesh in those circles. I will now probably be one of the friends you no longer consider a friend, and that is sad too... because I really do care about you. But this issue is no longer about your needs and wants, it is about your son's. Justin has done nothing but bend over backwards to placate you, to help you, to support your son, and try to help you transition to the next phase of your life, and your bitterness is sabotaging it all. Indy, in this scenario, sad to say, you are wrong. You told me at another time, "Nothing means more to me then my son." It is time you live up to those words.
As for your feelings of Kat, you have no right to say anything. It was your life style that allowed Kat and Justin to reacquaint. You wanted to let Justin and Kat interact so that you could have your flings with other guys. So how dare you call her anything when it was you that gave permission initially. You know this was a mistake, again you admitted it to me, so don't blame Kat. And don't blame Justin. You knew in your heart you were not showing Justin the love and caring he needed because of your libido. The two of you just were not meant to be, plain and simple... harsh but true.
It is time to stop pointing the blame finger... stop the childish name calling... and time to start caring about your son. If you want to blame anyone, blame me. Vent at me. Call me the biggest scum bag on the face of the planet because it was ME that looked you up... ME that put Kat in touch with Justin. ALL ME... then maybe for your son's sake you will be able to co-exist and place his needs above your own. Channel all your hatred towards ME and let Justin be the dad he wants to be and can be.
That's all I have to say. I hope you read this with an open mind, because you need to let go of the anger, bitterness and hatred... or you will never heal and you will only destroy your son in the process.
As for your feelings of Kat, you have no right to say anything. It was your life style that allowed Kat and Justin to reacquaint. You wanted to let Justin and Kat interact so that you could have your flings with other guys. So how dare you call her anything when it was you that gave permission initially. You know this was a mistake, again you admitted it to me, so don't blame Kat. And don't blame Justin. You knew in your heart you were not showing Justin the love and caring he needed because of your libido. The two of you just were not meant to be, plain and simple... harsh but true.
It is time to stop pointing the blame finger... stop the childish name calling... and time to start caring about your son. If you want to blame anyone, blame me. Vent at me. Call me the biggest scum bag on the face of the planet because it was ME that looked you up... ME that put Kat in touch with Justin. ALL ME... then maybe for your son's sake you will be able to co-exist and place his needs above your own. Channel all your hatred towards ME and let Justin be the dad he wants to be and can be.
That's all I have to say. I hope you read this with an open mind, because you need to let go of the anger, bitterness and hatred... or you will never heal and you will only destroy your son in the process.
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