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Apr 27, 2005 12:49

I know that i'm probably wrong, and that i'm just probably fucking stupid. Please, read this and tell me. Tell me that i'm wrong. Call me, cuss me out, call my a fucking idiot lunitic asshole ( Read more... )

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Calm down riceman13 April 28 2005, 19:50:53 UTC
She has no wish what-so-ever to hurt you. In fact, that is the opposite. She doesn't want to hurt you. This much i know. But maybe you two were never meant to be together. I know this hurts for you to read this comment, and i sincerely hope you will forgive me, but seriously, dude. You tried. She still wants to be your friend. Trust me on this. But you need to give it time. If she decides to go with someone else, its her choice. There is nothing you can do. If her and Tyler go, then the best you can do is move on, go find someone else. I know its hard. She still wants to be friends with you. But remember what i told you, that sometimes its awkward, you two just broke up, so it is awkward for most people to just get up and talk as if nothing happened. Why, because something DID happen. But to talk about it makes it worse as well, so instead of confronting it, people ignore it, they stay away from it. Either until they get over it, or it looms there. Eventually, you two have to talk about it. I recommend that you sincerely have a talk with her soon about any remote possibility of you two getting back together. If she says no, yeah, it hurts, but don't pursue it. A, it makes you look like a stalker, and B, it's not good for you. The most you can do is just extend your hand, say your there, and leave it alone. It's her choice. If she goes out with you, Great. If not, Get on with life, don't keep pursuing it. You may say that she doesn't know what she's talking about, but naturally, she says she is confused because she is afraid. Afraid that if she doesn't tell you something that you want to hear, then she will sincerely hurt your feelings. Yet at the same time, she can't say she just all of a sudden wants to get back together, because she may not want to. Don't pursue it. If she says no, leave it alone man. I hope this doesn't set hard feelings in the group. And remember, I love you like my brother. Love, brother, Love

James Harmon
"Riceman13"

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Re: Calm down prohack April 28 2005, 19:54:33 UTC
Thank you James. That is very good advice.

Though...i just updated my journal so...yeah.

I've already done what i'm gonna do for now. Eventually, yeah, i'll ask her again. But for now, she's confused and sad. All I can do is be there for her.

But, you should read my last post -_*

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