In a discussion of the backlash that the Twilight books have generated elsejournal, I mentioned that I found their sexual politics appalling, and when somebody asked me why, I linked to this article as a really good exploration of the question:
http://www.alternet.org/story/153158/the_bloody,_twisted,_inverted_world_of_twilight%3A_violent_vampire_sex,_demon-babies_and_overwhelming_female_desire/?page=1