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Sep 18, 2005 20:32

Ask me ANY FOUR questions.
It doesn't matter how personal, inappropriate, or random they may be.
I will answer the questions 100% truthfully.
Then repost this and see what people want to ask you.

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princessloveme September 19 2005, 15:15:24 UTC
Have I slept with? If I take that literally, yes, I've had sleep with many people. If you are asking about sex, I have had some sexual contact with women. I recall liking some but not all. I'd like to have more.

My first time at a poly event, I let someone cup me. What that means, is, on a bare back, some flamable material is lit, a glass cup placed over it. It sucks flesh into the glass, and it's then moved around an oiled back. It was a paradigm shift to be topless in front of a bunch of strangers, I'm actually rather shy and modest. And the cupping felt like a really deep massage.

I am not completely uninhibited. I think many people, that are not doormats, have some inhibitions. I have a few different ones than most. I freak out if the front of my neck is touched, it makes me feel like I'm choking. I have some things in my personal history that seem to allow issues to crop up durring giving oral sex. What makes me relaxed? Trust, massages, gentle touch, respectful speak.

I have not done anal. I've been teased and I'm toying with the area of going further. But I haven't yet. I think anal requires lots of trust, and care, and preparation. So it would have to be a very special person to explore this with.

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spyrals September 20 2005, 00:37:13 UTC
yeah i was asking about sex.. just wanted to get your view on sleeping with women, i know you like girls but i think you prefer men - yeah? i'm the same.. i've done the experimenting thing but for a long time i thought i was more into women, till i realised they are really pretty much the same as men relationship wise.

the cupping thing sounds awesome actually. it would take a lot of guts to undress in public.. wow. i keep thinking that being a performer at a sex show or even stripping would be a cool experience. i really love the fact that you like feeling out of your comfort zone.. i dont find many people who do.

i guess by inhibited i meant overly shy in bed.. i've been with people who would not even let me look at them naked so i think i'd call that pretty inhibited. not that i thought you were but it was something that interested me..

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princessloveme September 20 2005, 22:10:45 UTC
Thanks for the clarification, hun.

I think for me, I'm attracted to a person, rather than a gender. If I crush on you, I crush on you... not because of what you have in your pants. Women really are more beautiful than men, though.

I used to want to be a stripper just for the experience. I wasn't comfortable in my body at that time. I weigh more now than I did then, and am more comfortable... or maybe it has to do with age.

I am shy at first. But when I'm really comfortable, the shy falls away. And I'm one who prefers to speak extensively about sex and desires before getting into bed. So some of the comfort is built already. And it also depends on the day. I have "I'm fucking hot" and "I'm sooo not cute" days.

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