on insecurity

[primalfunk]

it's something that everyone has to deal with. for some, a thing that represents a lifelong struggle. why is it such a big deal? because we all know that, no matter how you look or how skilled you are at something, there is always someone you can point at and say 'they're better'.

Comments

no

[dawneccentric]

i do not agree. i dont think the only reason we want to be the best is to attract a mate. personally, i try to be the best more for self improvement. when i start striving for imrpovment, i find out more about myself, my limitations, my drive, my strengths, my weaknesses. i think we need people to be better than us so that we work harder to be better people. the only way to self-imrpovment in through self-discovery.

Re: no

[primalfunk]

you're absolutely right, and i agree with you in the terms you used